AutoBiography of a Dowry Law ( IPC 498A ) Victim

Who am i…?

I asked myself….

Frist of all, I`m an Indian citizen;

A man;

This much is enough to be a Victim of Dowry Law (IPC 498A)?

No need to be Indian citizen, you can be anyone, who marry Modern Indian Women,
can be a Victim;
Can be Jailed for No reason;
Without Bail; and this Complaint is NonCompoundable.

No need to be married to a Indian girl;
Even If you are a Brother;
A Friend;
Even a Neighbour;

This law will arrest you and dump you behind bars.

Oh…..!

Anyway My name is Rudolph and `im from India.

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I was born in Bombay but raised in Karkala a small town, 50 KM away from Mangalore, and passed Collage Degree from Mangalore University.
I am the middle one of 3 Children; we do not have sisters, Raised by God fearing Family. Since Beginning we used to help mother in her household things, so we mastered all house hold things, and we used to do our own, cleaning/washing/laundry.
Even today I can challenge any women in cooking or any household things.
In college also, I was not Famous, nor notorious, just an ordinary kid, mostly involved in Sports and NCC.
I have seen many had girl Friends and had sex, but no girl was dare to attach my name with her name, many called me Gandhi, but that did not change my attitude.
After college I went to Bombay, by birth place and joined Prestigious Company TELCO.
I always kept distance from Alcohol and smoke, I never had any such friends, nor we did not got any money to spend on those bad habits.

Map of My Home

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My Missing Rib; It was Arranged marriage, My Mother sister told she knew them very well; so we did not checked anything about her.

Here is bit Details about her.

She was born in Udipi but Raised in Bombay at her Uncle home, along with 5 Cousin sisters; They Dominated her whole life so far, and she will do as they say, That’s how she stabbed me on my back.

She spend her childhood in Bombay, when child her parents abandon her and her Brother, till 13 year old she was at uncle place, so she never learnt any house hold things. Even at the time of Engagement her Mother Proudly said, my sunita doesn’t know any house hold things, but she got good husband who know everything and cooking.

She was raised in alcoholic Family, her uncle start day with Alcohol. They do not celebrate any Function without Bottle. So she was thinking Drinking is Prestige and shows man capacity.

She did her degree from her native place,after her parents took her back from Uncle home.After college her one of the Friend SHETTY,arranged some Accounts job in Bombay.

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After our Engagement she and her Family came to my native home;

I took her to our Farm to show around.

At that time, I asked many things about her; that was the 1st time we met and talked together.

I asked her to tell about her College life; I know she done her elementary and high school at Bombay when she was staying with her uncle home. Later came to native place for College.

I did`t asked, she had Boyfriend or not but I asked, how was the college and your Friends.

She knew it what I asked.

She said nothing to tell like… that was the hint I never understood.

Later I found out after marriage, she wanted to marry someone else and her Father forced her to marry me, when her parents found I’m the suitable boy.

More shocking news I found out later after marriage was, one boy came to marry her before me, but later they rejected her, because they found out about her Past.

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Why I`m Dowry Law Victim.

All Over world, governments make laws to punish Crimnals,and Law breakers; But in india, its a business to creat job opertunities for lawyers,

Only Law to trap Innocent;
Its a Marriage Splitter;
A Family Breaker,

Thats Ok, but why i`m a Victim….

Beacuse i`m a Man,
Married to an Indian Women.
Beacuse i did not took any dowry;
Because i`m an ordinary man and she was jelous when i was sending only 500 Rs once in 2 months to my parents.
Because i was not doing as she or her parents says.
Because i foundout her past and present.
Because i Questioned her in front of public to justify her move.
Because i asked money to return which they were taking Every month from me.
Because my house was more cleaner and perfect than After marriage.

Once she asked from Bedroom, whats on TV..?
I said DUST, she said i`m insulting her.

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As I said; it was an arranged marriage.

So we married first and made love.

We got married in my native place Mangalore and after a week I came back to Bombay, where I was working.

Then I started to know her.

She did`t know how to cook, she never been to kitchen, Even she washed onions, so you can imagine, how much she knows about cooking.

I’m Lucky she did`t washed salt before add it to dish.
I told her how to do what, how much salt and sugar to be added, but whatever she cooked I ate without complaining even its burnt or taste less.

In the Second week of our Marriage, when she was cleaning/moping house, I told her how to mop. I was teaching her things, but she was furious, and thinking I’m pin pointing her every mistake and she said.

I`M NOT YOUR SLAVE TO DO YOUR HOUSE HOLD THINGS.

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After Marriage we have a custom to invite newly wed couple for lunch or dinner;

So After our wedding we were invited by many in my native place when we were in native place for one week.

I hardly go to others house for eat, so I did`t go, other than my Brothers wife home and her uncle house, as my all neighbors also invited us, I nicely refused, same her neighbors also invited us. We were at native place only one week after marriage. She was angry I did make it to her neighbor’s invitation.

After we came to Bombay, her cousin sisters and other relatives invited us and we went. but at get together when I took cold drinks only as I do not drink beer or and alcohol, they started to tease me its child drink, still I was there in every party her side hosted.

My Relatives of Bombay also invited us, but she was not ready to come, Other than relatives my Godfather invited but she bluntly refused to come with me and I went alone, just because, I did not went for her neighbors invitation;

My godfather, asked me why she did`t came,
I told them, she is not well;
I lied for her, hiding truth.

This was the Starting point, and started showup differences between us.

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As I wrote before, that was not the starting of Crack in my marriage, sometimes I think, it was soon after Marriage.

After few days of marriage, when we were still in native place, my parents and she went to her house for a visit.

After marriage I gave some gold to her, including one bracelet. After our visit to her parents to return my home we have to change 2 buses. I told her while dress up, wear that bracelet correctly, coz I knew its hook was tight. She said, no need to tell, I know.

When we return, we came to the junction where we have to get other bus to my native, and there was still time for other bus, so we went to have juice. While having juice, I saw her hand and there was no Bracelet, it was missing, I thought she kept it in bag or somewhere else, but I asked her, about bracelet.

She was shocked to see no bracelet, but she uttered a word, “same thing happened as I told”

It was like, just because I told and it happened, coz she was not ready to admit she was careless.

Anyway I did`t told much, we finished, juice and came back to bus stand, while coming back, where we got down from first bus, there itself that BRACELET was shining. I was happy to find it again, that also to me, it was laying there almost for half an hour, because it was mine and I found it again. That made her more upset.

And this issue she told to all her Family, that made me NOTORIOUS among them and branded me a as “Person of BAD tongue“.

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Her Father came to Bombay to check how we are, after 2 months of marriage. As she was reporting Everything, whatever happened at home, Even her sister knew about our Personal Life, Sex, where we made love and how and her Cousin sister was Questioning me.

When she told “she is not my slave to do house hold things” I told this to her Cousin Sister, but she laughed at me; same I called her mother and told at the same time. But she did`t uttered anything against her.

After her Father came to Bombay, I invited him for lunch, he came shamelessly before marriage also when I was staying alone, that time I did`t know he will not have food without alcohol.

But this time, I said, I `ll not entertain anyone with Alcohol, as I do not drink and I do not allow to bring it into my home.

She was furious and said, if you are not bringing no Problem, Give me money ill bring.

I was so shocked, coz I have`t been to Any Bar/pub or any liquor shop till that day.

Her words made me to go and bring alcohol.

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Anyone seen any Indian Women demanding DIVORCE in 2 weeks of Marriage.?

I should not tell anything; guide or advice her too.she was beahving like she know Everything, but knew nothing.

Not only tell something;if i know she is going to make mistake i should not warn her;

Like;
do not keep gas flame high, it will burn the dish
do not put more water in grinder, it will spill

same i told; do not put more rice in Grinder it will not grind well, but unfortunatly grinder motor got burnt;

she was blaming me, my tongue;

whatever i says that happens;

but she replies;

do whatever i `ll not change,i`ll be like this only;if you want to change, change yourself

Else

Give me Divorce

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