AutoBiography of a Dowry Law ( IPC 498A ) Victim

I have been to friends house on weekend and he asked me to stay, at night and I could not sleep for more than 5 minutes.

Next morning I asked him, if someone snore loudly at night can he sleep. ?
He said, NO. 

I said  Same Here, I could not sleep and he understood. He was snoring like old diesel engine.  And I know he is happily married.(wife is in india)

I asked him, his wife has any problem with his snoring.

He said NO. (not sure, but they are still together)

I know some men come home drunk Every day beat wife and children.
Some smoke and smell like DEAD RAT, even their sweat.
Some People mouth adore is so much ,You cann`t stand near them.
Some do not work, but they fight with wife for her earning.
Some are drug edicts
Some goes to prostitutes and has extra marital Affairs.
Some spending  all their money on gambling, and hardly give anything to house hold things.
Most men never been to kitchen;forget cooking,they do not even know how to make TEA.
Most men do not know how to do household things,Even they know, they will not do.

But thier wives are not run away, they are happily married.

And

I do not fit anywhere.
I do not snore
I do not drink or alcoholic
I do not smoke
I do not have mouth adore
I have well paid job
I do not do drugs
Never had sex other than Legally wed wife.
I do not know how to play normal card games.
I can cook or Challenge any women in cooking.
I can handle from Stiching to SuperComputers, Even i can handle just born babies other than breast feed.

Still she runaway…. I`m not sure WHY ?

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I always wanted to ask her; if in Future by mistake, if we meet again.
I`m not sure she knows about post or not, may be she is reading all my Future plans, as i dare to write here,even before, i really thinking about doing it.

One of the reader,asked me, Why am i writting all this,instead forgetting her and move on with my life.
thinking about past is useless,
thinking what went wrong,
thinking I could have saved my Marriage. bla bla,bla…

I`m sure, she will not talk to me, if meet again, Unfortunatly. coz i know now, her most of the drak secrets.

Why im writting here, not  just because, I loved her,nor as a Revenge for filling false case on me. but because, If she really wanted to leave, im no one to STOP her, its her life, she knows better, what she want. but she should have gone CLEAN, without filling false case to BLACKMAIL me, to Demand MONEY. and after all, if she gave me Divorce on the Day she left, i would have married someone, somewhere; and Started new Family. Now i am not interested to get marry Again or get back with someone nor Sex.

Only OPTION left, to show world, why i am like this.

You may wonder what may be the questions i wanted to ask her.

I wanted to ask Her, only one Question.
WHY SHE LEFT,WHAT MADE HER TO LEAVE.
(We all know, it is not about dowry)

I have Options for her,if she find trouble to find answers.

LOVE - (was it PreMarital LOVE(affair) dragged back to her Lover ?)
LUST - (Was it sex,she enjoyed with LOVER than husband ?)
LAZY - (She Love, not to do house work but Watch TV only)
LOST - (she tried to control me,but LOST)
LOOT - (She tried very hard to loot,saying i have give money to her and her Family only,Even when she left, she took all my GOLD and Valuables.)
FREEDOM (No Explanation,no one should question her when she gossip with her cousins whole night)
I`m sure she has no Answer for this,Cause Answer lies in All Above OPTIONS itself.

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