AutoBiography of a Dowry Law ( IPC 498A ) Victim

As i wrote in earlier post, I have been getting many marriage proposals, from known and unknown Friends, those who watching me for years.

I did not asked anyone to find a Better half for me, still, as they found out i am.

Non Alcoholic
Non Smoker
Drugs NO
gamble NO
Flirt NO.
Good Job YES
Bank Balance YES
Resourceful YES
Trustworthy YES

So many offer came on my way, Even one married women, Boldly said in a Party, in front of Her own husband, She want to marry me…. and that Pathetic Husband name is Jude miranda.

Out of many one came Online to CHAT with me, as i told Her Sponsor that i wanted to talk to her.

Here is CHAT session……(initial hi/bye are omitted)

RUDY:- What are you looking for in your Future Husband
MIW :- Someone Good, having Good Job and high status in Society.
RUDY:- What do you mean high status….. Car / Bunglow / servants
MIW :- yes, yes
RUDY:- what about Bank Balance,
MIW :- If he has Good job, he will have Bank balance NA…..!
RUDY:- So you mean to say, you are looking for RICH Stud…..
MIW :-
MIW :- Not exactly……
RUDY:- ?
MIW :- You are OK……
RUDY:- But i do not have all those what you wanted.
MIW :- I know, you have all, MR.x told me, You earn 6 Figure Salary.
RUDY:-  =))  Dollar or Rupees…
MIW :- I know.  =))
RUDY:- I do not have Car or never employ servants, as long as i can do myself.
MIW :- X-( let see.
MIW :- I know you can cook and know all house hold things….
RUDY:- Who told you that….Mr.x…..?
RUDY:- Yes i can cook, very well and do my stuff and keep my house perfect, that not mean that i will cook for you, I will help you in Kitchen / Laundry / cleaning etc etc. I will take 50% responsibility of House…..
MIW :- Ok, thats good.
RUDY:- You Never seen me, still you are ready to marry me….!
MIW :- Mr.x told me, how you look like……thats why i agreed.
RUDY:- Im Short, only 5.5Ft
RUDY:- and Dark too, may be people can call us, BLACK & WHITE
MIW :- Nooooooooooo…. I know, you are not short, you are almost 6Ft,Slim,Very Active and not at all Dark.
RUDY:- so you people done very good Post Mortem
MIW :- not like that……
RUDY:- What else you know about me…?
MIW :- You have Big Land and House…
MIW :- You have 2 Brothers and No sisters….
RUDY:- No sisters….@ Good For you Right…?
MIW :- 
RUDY:- My Old Mother is still There, and we are still joint Family.
MIW :- OK, but after marriage we will not stay there, We will build separate house right ?
RUDY:- You will not stay with my mother….
MIW :- ………..
RUDY:- Hellooooooooo r u there….?
MIW :- ………..
RUDY:- Yes, we can….Last year i estimated to build a house in Mangalore, at least 20 Lakhs needed,
MIW :- Good Good…
RUDY:- You have Equal Rights Right ?
MIW :- Absolutly.
RUDY:- 50/50
MIW :- yea
RUDY:- So you will Give 10 Lakhs Right ?
MIW :- What….?  :-t
RUDY:- Half is yours, so half You will pay,
MIW :- Nooooo
MIW :- I donot have money….
RUDY:- You are working for many years, what you did with all the money.
MIW :- its in Bank, thats mine.
RUDY:- If Half mine is yours, why not Your Half is mine….?  =))  =))
MIW :- Dot Laugh…..
RUDY:- Whatever mine is yours and yours also Yours, thats what you are saying…..
MIW :- Yea, but i cann`t give that much money to build house….
RUDY:- If you cann`t but your Father Can right ?
MIW :- Yea, But i have other 2 sisters…..
RUDY:- so he can give it to other 2 sisters, Why not you….?
MIW :- uuummmmmmmmmmmm :-w
RUDY:- You want me to share your half house work, but you will not share anything or take responsibilities, you will not contribute to build house, you are happy when i do house work,But you will not share my burdon…..
MIW :- You are very difficult person…..
RUDY:- Sure….. Why not
RUDY:- This is EQUALITY, THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE.
RUDY:- You want me to spend on you, Pay your bills, but you will not contribute anything in return.
MIW :- No, i will make you happy….
RUDY:- How…?
MIW :- You know it…..  :)
RUDY:- You Mean sex….?
MIW :- he he…… 
RUDY:- Do you think Man is happy with sex only…..?
MIW :- I dunno.
RUDY:- then.
MIW :- …….
RUDY:- then its very expesive sex …..I have to spend so much,just for sex…..?
MIW :- What do you want then.
RUDY:- I want a simple poor Girl, Who is down to earth, Know her Domestic Responsibilities, Share Love and Duty,sacrifies things, without expecting anything.
MIW :- ………….
RUDY:- But you wanted Rich Man, who has CAR / Bunglow / Servents, you never said you wanted someone who LOVE you,
MIW :- ………..
RUDY:- So you are after Money only…… and you will not marry someone Poor, who love you lot and care for you.
MIW :- ……………..
MIW :- Bye
RUDY:- Dear you Found a wrong person then…..
MIW :- bye……
RUDY:- You Should say GOOD BYE.

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Now you Know, What Women Want…..

DATE: 27-Aug-2008

After this Historic Event, next day her Uncle SAM, Mr.X came to my Office with Technic coloured face, and started to question me….
and said i Insulted her, If i do not want to marry then i should have told him before.
I humbly asked, When i asked him to forward girls Proposal, or i wanted to marry.?…..
He himself Forced her on me, now Blaming me.
Then he accused me, that i wanted to have sex with her before marriage, to check if she is OK in BED or not.
That was ultimate boundry of my patience.
I said nothing, than showing whole chat……
and i said,Your Lady Madam want everything from me, but she will not give anything in return.
she clearly said, she do not want to live with my mother or Family home.
She expect me to cook / clean for her.
Even she works, she will not share or take responsibility to run home.
Do you expect me to take such white buffallo, home….?
She says, she will make me happy with sex, which women is not doing that. ? i questioned.
there was silence…..
He was searching for words……
i continued, even i do not wanted to tell, but she Blamed me falsey about SeX, when i exposed her and blacked her face.
If i want just sex, then for less i will get new Girl Every night for less, no need to spend so much…..

Even before my sentense finished, he walked away, without any word.

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I`m not inviting curse on her, for not breast feeding my son or Abducting and keeping him away from me.

As i wrote earlier She stopped breast feed; to save her Beauty. she gave hardly gave breast milk to our son, She was at my mother house only for 3 months, just because my mother insisting to feed breast milk, by force or acting like feeding breast milk for 3 months only.

Just now i was reading new scientific finding that Breastfeeding Cuts Breast Cancer Risk, cholesterol. and remembered her sister already had Breast cancer and cancer along with breast also removed.

why not same will not repeated to my ex also, she stopped breast feed to save her beauty, can she save her breast from wrath of GOD and cancer ?

Cancer News follows….

New research indicates that infants who are breastfed have lower levels of cholesterol in later life, and that nursing mothers have a lesser risk of breast cancer.
The study shows that thousands of lives can be saved if all women breastfed their babies exclusively for the recommended six months.

Lower cholesterol levels reduce the risk of developing heart disease in later life.

In order to reach the conclusion, a review of data from over 17,000 adults was conducted by researchers at St George’s University of London, and it was found that those who were breastfed exclusively had lower cholesterol than those only fed on formula.

Thought the effect on the individual was relatively small, across the whole population, it was calculated that if everyone were breastfed as babies there were be a 5 per cent reduction in cases of coronary artery disease.

"The paper concludes that initial breastfeeding, particularly when exclusive, is associated with lower blood cholesterol concentrations in later life, compared to initial formula feeding," Telegraph quoted study author Dr Chris Owen, Epidemiologist at St George’s, University of London, said

All women should breastfeed if they can, he said, because of the proven long-term health benefits.

Women who breastfeed have a lower risk of breast cancer and babies are also less likely to be obese, have eczema, and have fewer ear infections.

The study has been published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition’s (ACJN) August edition. 

Dr Owen said: "This study provides further evidence that breast feeding has long-term health benefits. Apart from all its other effects, it appears to lower blood cholesterol in later life

The results also suggest that formula feeds should match the context of breast milk as closely as possible - any attempt to reduce the fat content of formula feeds could be counter-productive."

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