AutoBiography of a Dowry Law ( IPC 498A ) Victim

I would like to thank each and everyone on the vocation of, unexpected Lifetime achievement award for my small contribution. I have no words to thank you Brothers..

Thank you Very much, for all your love and trust You kept in me.
i hereby promise, i will dedicate my coming years, for this cause. As long as possible.

Thank You Gokul for your nice words about me.

“Lifetime achievement award : Rudolph D’souza aka Indian aka mynation.net / supari.org ( webmaster for siftimes.com, pifngo.info, 10s of blogs which features case briefs of 1000s of victims, 498a girl list, good/bad lawyer list, phewww should I say more, u guys know better anyway)

These pioneering role-models were selected by a jury from among an average of 6 to 7 nominations in all the categories(all these details later, have patience dears :), EXCEPT for the life time achievement award….. which was a unanimous, unchallenged, fool-proof, immutable, etc, etc choice- the first and foremost choice….. but obviously, since Rudy is the father of SIF movement hands down(for the uninitiated. ……… he started spreading the SIFian fire single-handedly right from 2000 A.D!… fiercly, unfearingly, single-mindedly; online. BTW he got his XParte today(27th Sept) and straight took a flight to join us a 3.30PM…. Shine on us father…… that we can reflect your light around us, so meaningfull even in this context ;). Its definitely a good day for SIF, it will be written in blood in history of India, the very thick Indian blood…. the blood which makes us fight for our families(… gold can take a hike “ – Gokul P.Rmore details can be found legalfighter.wordpress.com/2008/09/29/siff-national-meet-reportoire/

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 You can Hide the truth, but you cann`t erase it

i asked many newly married men, how much sex is not forced sex…?

All are maried for last 3 to 5 years.

Some said, for the 1st year, those wives are not got pregnent had sex,sometimes 3 times a day, or at least one a day.

Few of them, said they had sex 5 to 8 times in 1st night…!

Still their wives had no Problem…..

I met one of our neighbor, her old one of the best frind, she told, my ex was accusing me, that i was forcing her for sex.

but for her surprise i had a calender where i listed all the dates, we had sex, it comes 118 times in 3 years, that mean once in a week.
As per others caluculation, as they has sex 3 times a day 1st few months of marriage that comes 90 Times in a singe month, and his wife has no complain about thier sex life, or its not a forced sex.

Then how come my 118 times in 3 years encounter is a FORCED sex…?

meanwhile, when i went to her city, to meet my grndfather,and met one of her nighbor lady, whom we call BBC, she came running to me, and saw here and there, and asked what had happend to my case.
i said TRISHANKU

she said very slowly, you broke her with her not because of her colleage Affair right ? or…. did you knew has one shetty boy……!

i asked why did`t you told me this before,so you also knew this,

We thought you should have know, and enquiried about it, she said.

yea we knew, that why we broke……

After all this,

now everyone knows, she had Affair, for some she is saying i was forcing sex with her.
and for others, she was telling i was having Affair. when she had one.

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When I was in India, this time, I met so many of her aids, relative’s neighbors and friends, and all told only one thing, girl was not happy with marriage.

She was forced to marriage by her father, as she can’t utter a word against her parents.

So; Outcome, she wanted out, but with some excuses, reasons, so her family will support her in future. And will not bring disgrace to her family. She waited for 3 years, in a suffocated environment, as she was not at all happy with me. Never indulged willingly or co-operated with anything.

She always wanted, take money from me, and insisted to give money, whenever her brothers wanted. Always wanted to know how much I earn etc etc.

Other than this, she was telling me to try to go abroad, and after breakup my church priest told her I’m going abroad and at that time she was staying with her sister, came to me for one night, and asked me many time, am I really going abroad or not. When she found out that I’m not going abroad, she went away and slept separately and next morning went away as she came.

Few months before 498a, she applied for passport, even I was not abroad, if husband is not abroad, why wife want passport…..?

This was not co-incident, it was totally well planned, Pre Planned Plot .

The day they came to take all her belongings, she did not asked much about anything than passport, which was with me and 2 of her sisters fought with me to take passport and it was with me, because I paid for the passport. They tried to snatch passport from me but it was torn apart, and they got only half of the passport pages.

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After National Meet in Goa, with my virgin (seal was still intact) LIFE TIME ACHIVEMENT AWARD (Wine bottle) while returning from Goa to Bombay we took train KONKAN KANNYA at Thivim.

Luckily we all members got sleeper seats, and unfortunately I got single seat on the side, which was only 5 foot long, and at night, I tried to squeeze 6 feet body into this 5 foot place that means I could not sleep. Most of the time all platform of railways stops were coming in my side of the train, so I hardly slept few minutes.

At the same time other side of the 2 births occupied by platoon of some modern gals and guys from Bombay, who went to goa for picnic. Most are acting like they are in some western countries. From my seat I can clearly see 2 births on right side. After dinner all went to sleep and lights were switched off.

On the front birth on bottom 2 seats, one girl and guy were sleeping, after lights off, within in 30 minutes, guy was on his knees, next to girl seat and kissing. As I was struggling to sleep on 5 foot seat. Everyone can clearly see what they are doing. As every few minutes train was passing some station, and light was peeping through window. They were so ashamed, even just opposite of their seat there was young married women with a small child, who was awake and watching them.

After few minutes of kissing, he came down on her breast, as when he was kissing; his hands were on her breasts, milking. Now he started to suck, as she lifted her T shirt off the chest. And his other hand was between her thighs inside her pant.

Same time on other side, guy was sleeping on the bottom of seat and girl was on middle seat above him. I saw him many times, stood up and kissed her, unfortunately on his opposite seat there was FAT lady trying to sleep and was awake, may be that’s stopped him, from doing something else.

Guys, you may wonder why I wrote this, in this section of 498A Biography, what the heck; this porn story has to do with this.

Most of the time these modern girls Enjoy premarital sex, and they are sure these guys will not marry them. Still they enjoy with many guys, and when they get marry they will not disclose these premarital Affairs, and find some innocent Rich man. Sometimes, even after marriage they will not forget their ex lovers, and continue their Affairs.

Because, they want husband to pay her bills, and lovers to enjoy.
  They know Indian law support them, as one of the judgment, wife has right to enjoy outside marriage, Blaming husband not satisfying her.
  Even caught her red handed Indian judiciary will grant alimony, and force husband to pay her.
  When husband find out and question her past / present, she can file false dowry case to blackmail him.
  She will granted child custody too.
  She can runaway with Husband valuables and stay with her lover and deny Divorce to husband without coming to court.

THIS IS INDIA. And that’s what happened to me too.

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When I went to India, this time, I went to see my grandfather, who is in same place as my Ex native place, and in same town my Abducted son held on Ransom. I met many of her neighbors’, as I know many from same place. one of her neighbor old lady saw me, came running to me and started to talk.

OMG…………! She said.

I asked, what happened.

I saw your son, last Sunday,

Is it….!

He looks just like you, as when you were at his age.

Coz she knows me, Very well since I was small child, when we used to go to grandfather house.

[My Photo, when i was 2 year Old and one and half year old GLENN]yeaaa….! I smiled at her and said.

That’s why I left him there, with them, as a reminder, and they will remember me Every time they see him. I laughed.

Did you meet him? She asked.

NO.

No..? Why she asked.

Can you see someone is beating your child….? I asked her

NO…! Not at all.

Same here, I said.

I saw question mark on her face,

I continued……

See last time when I went to meet him in his school, with so much chocolates and sweets. As previous year I took only few chocolate bars and gave it to him. But when he saw me, he was scared to meet me. And refused to take anything from me. His teacher asked him to take chocolates and she will not do anything.

He said NO.

My Grandmother beat me, if I take chocolates from Daddy. When I took last year she threatened me to punish; if I take anything. (Same was recorded in video and produced to court)

So how can I see my son saying, his grand Mother is beating him, if I meet him. I just saw him from far away, that’s it. because of me, i do not want, him to get hurt

I know that Black B****, for years, she is the one who is responsible, it’s all her idea, girl is innocent. Your wife is not like her elder sister or mother…… she continued saying something.

Do not leave innocent child there, take him with you, these pathetic people, make his life misrable. their own boys left home, they do not even come home, nor send any money to parents, thats how they broughtup. All know they are alcoholic like their father.

She keeps on telling her family background and details.

I said, forget……and left from there

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After Konkan Kannya episode, one HARDCORE feminist came online to fight with me, when I checked her YAHOO id it was created same day, and today when I checked same Profile is deleted. That means she just created that profile to ARGUE with me only.

First she sound like one of my ex relative, whoever she was, she tried to prove women are Victim always and they are SAINTS.

Feminists: Why do you Blame women always.

rudy3107: BLAME for what.

Feminists::-for their mistakes.

rudy3107 ::-you only say “for their mistakes” so you admit they make mistakes; what’s wrong in blaming them, for their mistakes. We are doing anything wrong in that ? By showing their mistakes

Feminists::-gurrrrrrrrrrr, I mean to say. In your every post you blame women for all mistakes, you term them as Prostitutes….

rudy3107 ::-so ?

rudy3107 ::- what mistakes ? I do not blame women for men mistakes. You know, you admit this say “Behind Every successful man, there is a women” Right ?

Feminists::- yeas, that’s true.

rudy3107 ::- why not behind every unsuccessful man, there is women hand ? If 1st one is right, why not this ? You want to take credits only ?

Feminists::- I’m not saying that.

rudy3107 ::- yea yea, actually I wanted to say Behind Every crime man commit there is women hand…..

Feminists::- why do u say so ?

rudy3107 ::- most of the things man is doing, he is doing it for his women, as per me. She is source of inspiration. He has to do many things to meet her demands. Requirements of home and family.

Feminists::- yea, that’s his Responsibility.

rudy3107 ::-what’s wife’s responsibility then ?

rudy3107 ::- Spend his hard earned money lavishly ?

rudy3107 :- Flirt with lovers, extra marital Affairs…..

Feminists::- see that’s what I was saying, why do you term women as …..

rudy3107 ::- I do not want to term women as ^$%&%, but I want to brand them that.

Feminists::- y?

rudy3107 ::- because most are like that. I wrote, what I saw. Hope you gone through KONKAN KANNYA.

rudy3107 ::- do YOU blame MEN FOR THIS TOO ?

Feminists::- yes, man is responsible for that.

rudy3107 ::-How come ?

rudy3107 ::-OK I admit, man is responsible, and women are INNOCENT ?

Feminists ::-

rudy3107::- As in Konkan Kannya, if that girl was SAINT, as you say, why didn’t she slapped when he approached her. She should have shouted for help and handover that man to police, why she lift her T-Shirt, give him to suck (.)(.)s

Feminists::- that’s one incident, you can’t blame all women just like that.

rudy3107 ::- where I said all men are like that and they are SAINTS ?

rudy3107 ::- Think I have needle and you have thread, and I ask you to put that thread into the needle, but when you try to pass thread in the eye of needle, I will twist and shake the needle, can you Able to put it in ?

Feminists::- NO, not all,

rudy3107 ::- so moral of the story, if a woman is not agreeing it’s difficult to do anything. These wordings are used in one of the RAPE case, girl filled RAPE case on an innocent man, but girl was not having any bruise on her. And same can be applied anywhere, unless I hold the needle you can’t put threat in it, unless girl agree, boy can’t do anything, Affair or Love, its man nature try to get someone for love. Is that wrong. So you can’t blame men for all, you can’t clap in one hand. Teach your modern women morals 1st, men will learn by themselves.

rudy3107 ::-Teach them dress correctly, without exposing their assets and Provoke men, so some men get out of control and RAPE someone, we can’t help it.

rudy3107 ::-Teach your modern women, family Responsibilities

Feminists::- so you justify RAPE, and man is Right.

rudy3107 ::-if man was right in RAPE, why there is punishment in penal code?

Feminists::-what family responsibilities ? Most women do and know that.

rudy3107 ::- I said modern women. I know there are good women. I’m not taking about them.

Feminists::-ok

rudy3107 ::-how many working women share half financial burden of running home ? go and check any matrimonial site, where girl is asking, she want to find a man who is financially strong, well settled, educated, own house / car etc etc.

rudy3107 ::- Have you ever seen a Girl is saying let’s build a new house, and I will give half money ? But if Divorced she want half of husband Property. Money, maintenance, alimony Why ?

Feminists::- that’s system…

rudy3107 ::-what system ? I seen girls saying

rudy3107 ::-I never been to kitchen in my Daddy’s house,

rudy3107 ::-Chapatti belnekeliye nahi ayee hoon

rudy3107 ::-and you know, what my Ex said ? “I’m not your slave to do household work” they think whatever they do is right, and shed crocodile tears , cry and all will believe, and law also in your side…..

rudy3107 ::- hellloooooooooo

rudy3107 ::- r u there……?

She was not only disappeared but deleted her id too…..

PS: Any Feminist want to ARGUE more, Please send PING to my yahoo messenger id “rudy3107“, it snot a mail id, so do not send emails.

LET’S FIGHT CONTINUE……

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Last week I created a Profile on one of our community Matrimonial Site.

You may wonder, I still haven`t got the Divorce Legally but created an online Profile……?
ha ha no.

Not for me, I created as a woman, with some nice Detail as below.

Gender: Female
Age: 35
Religion: Christian: Catholic 
Location: UAE
Marital Status: Divorced
Residency Status: Work Permit
Mother Tongue: Konkani 
Qualification: Bachelors
Occupation: Accountant 
Height: 5ft 3in - 160cm 
Body: Slim
Complexion: Wheatish Medium
Smoke: No
Drink: Yes
  
About Myself:
Working in Dubai for a MNC, having 50,000 Salary.
Looking for handsome, well settled boys from Mangalore. Who is willing to settle down in Bombay, with strings attached and with my parents.
He has to Accepts me without questioning my past.
I’m not available to hang around, do not send me mail, asking me to call you.
NO Mommas BOYS.

1st Day itself I got 7 Mails, Out of 7, only one was separated and all others are Bachelors. s o I ignored his mail. Rest I asked why they are interested in marrying a divorcee.

One replied, saying, “if she is good, experienced and sexy WHY not“.
Other one said “I agree with the terms, I do not count she is Divorcee or not.”
3rd one said “what’s wrong in marrying a Divorce, when she earn well“.

One more mail from a Hindu, so I didn`t replied to him too.

But most pathetic are other two.

One of them is 27, another 28 year old and off course bachelors.

I asked them, what made them to contact a DIVORCEE, and they are almost 7 to 8 years younger too.

One boldly replied, “Trying my Luck”
What the F**k his Luck may be, or our men so desperate and in a Pathetic situation…?

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An Interview with….?
As I gave my messenger id in “FEMINISTS ATTACK” Post, one guy came online, claiming to be freelance writer.

PuReLAvA :– What made you to write your Story?
Rudy3107 :– It’s not my Story. it’s my Real life Story; I just felt like to show the world how I was harassed with this false case, Even I never took any money or demanded any, still case is going on, even She is not came to court for last 9 Years.

PuReLAvA :– Where is She now?
Rudy3107 :– As per my Last tracker Report, she is in UAE;

PuReLAvA :– Did you Contacted her?
Rudy3107 :– No. I called her Few months back, Asking her to come back, and you know what she said….

PuReLAvA :– yes I had gone thru your postings.

PuReLAvA :– What made you to call her back to join you?
Rudy3107 :– It is my duty before say YES to divorce, ask her, after that she should not say, she was not aware of Divorce, or I did not gave her chance.

PuReLAvA :– So you said YES to Divorce.
Rudy3107 :– YES.

PuReLAvA :– So you got the Divorce.
Rudy3107 :– NO, Now it’s up to Judge.i`m waiting for Decree.

PuReLAvA :– Will you get marry Again?
Rudy3107 :– No, If I get my son Custody.

PuReLAvA :– As per my knowledge, Your Custody Petition was dismissed by lower Court.
Rudy3107 :– YES, Now it’s in High Court, In few Days she may get Notice From High court, If Everything goes smoothly.

PuReLAvA :– OK, It’s a Blog of 498A Victim, but nowadays you do not write about it.
Rudy3107 :– It’s a waste fighting for one sided, biased laws. You see, nothing happens if you both are not going; Government is wasting its Resources. And Authority is so dumb to understand this. Only Lawyers are making money.

PuReLAvA :– So What is the Status of your 498a case?
Rudy3107 :– As it is 9 years Back.

PuReLAvA :– If it’s false, you do not want to dismiss and charge her.
Rudy3107 :– Sure, I will do that, I have to do As I Preach.

PuReLAvA :– Preach?
Rudy3107 :– We have some 6000 Members Registered with us; I tell everyone, Counter False case and sue all 498A girls, Unless I do, how can I tell my followers to do the same?

PuReLAvA :– So you sue her?
Rudy3107 :– Why Not, it’s a False case, Now my case is taken by one Capable Lawyer himself. and he is sure soon it will be Dismissed.

PuReLAvA :– So you will file case on her?
Rudy3107 :– Actually, I do as per law, I have nothing against her, I ask law to punish her witness, As I have not done anything wrong to them, and still they gave False witness.

PuReLAvA :– Why are you not doing anything to her?
Rudy3107 :– Coz she slept with me….haha…

PuReLAvA :– No, seriously…
Rudy3107 :– Coz I still Love her, and she is mother of my son.

PuReLAvA :– but somewhere you said, He is not your son.
Rudy3107 :– Where? it is she told our son to call me “UNCLE“; Coz women know, whom she slept with.

PuReLAvA :– that’s sarcastic…!
Rudy3107 :– Why? Telling truth is sarcastic? As per one UK study, 30% Fathers are not biological Father of their children.

PuReLAvA :– So you doubt her.
Rudy3107 :– where I said I doubt her. If I ever did, I would have not asked her to come back.

PuReLAvA :– So you want her back.
Rudy3107 :– I’m sure she will not come back, with what face she will come back. For her it’s her EGO stop her from admitting her mistake. Still if she admit her mistake, I’m ready to take her back any time; People should not say later, that she wanted to come back and I did not took her back. and I’m writing same thing over and over again, in Future GLENN, my son will find this posting and Will know the truth.

PuReLAvA :– so it’s all about your son, did you miss him.
Rudy3107 :– See, I Loved him more than anything, and he loved me more than his mother, at night he wanted to sleep on my chest, but not with his mother. I used to get up at night to change his wet cloths, many more things I wrote in my old posts.

PuReLAvA :– As she deserted him, why don`t you just take him with you.
Rudy3107 :– Good Question. Do you think INDIAN men has that right, In India, Women (Mother) can kidnap children and keep them with
her, that’s legal, but Father can’t do that. Such a biased law.
Rudy3107 :– When she took him, I missed him a lot, she was thinking they can make me to bring me on my knees for him, coz they knew, I loved him so much and I will do anything to get him.

PuReLAvA :– So?
Rudy3107 :– Even her mother told same thing to many, in her place, for the sake of his son he will come to us begging.
Rudy3107 :– But I proved them wrong.

PuReLAvA :– What you did.
Rudy3107 :– Did nothing, wept myself, spent sleepless nights thinking.

PuReLAvA :– OK. He is the loser in fight between you both.
Rudy3107 :– No, I blame it on her, she took him away from me, and yes I admit he lost his childhood playing with me; so she has bring him back. Or I will ask the LAW.

PuReLAvA :– ok; So what was the 498A impact on you.
Rudy3107 :– haha

PuReLAvA :–?
Rudy3107 :– It’s a BLESSING for me.

PuReLAvA :– How?
Rudy3107 :– I would like to thank her for making me Notorious if not FAMOUS; Today I have so many Followers.

PuReLAvA :– ok,

PuReLAvA :– I’m not asking that,
Rudy3107 :– I know, what you are asking about.

PuReLAvA :– then….
Rudy3107 :– After 498A, I took my life as a Challenge,
Rudy3107 :– It made me BOLD, now I dare to talk to Police / Judges, even I did good in all my interviews

PuReLAvA :– So 498A is good;
Rudy3107 :– yea….If it’s False.

PuReLAvA :– Why do you think she filed False case on you??
Rudy3107 :– I wrote it before somewhere, still I repeat. To control me, Actually She was not happy with the marriage, but for her there was no option left when she was forced to marry, by her parents. Still she tried to make use of the marriage to dominate me as her Mother and Sisters are doing. Even today her father getup early morning and prepare breakfast and hot water for his Better half OLD BLACK Buffalo. and her elder sister husband also do. Can you imagine a Degree holder girl marry a Elementary Pass waiter? that’s her sister. My Bitter half also wanted to do same, but failed and then there was no option left than
filling false case on me. And to get sympathy from her family, she told everyone I am a Womanizer, Alcoholic and Beat her, as usual all other women say.

PuReLAvA :– Do you think she will come back
Rudy3107 :– What for? NO WAY. With what face…..haha
Rudy3107 :– That’s why I boldly say I`m ready to take her back….

PuReLAvA :– haha
Rudy3107 :– Do you think, her parents let her go, A Golden egg laying hen? She earn well, and she send money for son, as her parents kept him on RANSOM.

PuReLAvA :– OK then, Thank you Very Much…

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