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[7 Nov 2007 | 6 Comments | ]

Who am i…?
I asked myself….
Frist of all, I`m an Indian citizen;
A man;
This much is enough to be a Victim of Dowry Law (IPC 498A)?
No need to be Indian citizen, you can be anyone, who marry Modern Indian Women,
can be a Victim;
Can be Jailed for No reason;
Without Bail; and this Complaint is NonCompoundable.
No need to be married to a Indian girl;
Even If you are a Brother;
A Friend;
Even a Neighbour;
This law will arrest you and dump you behind bars.
Oh…..!
Anyway My name is Rudolph and `im from India.

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[7 Nov 2007 | 2 Comments | ]

I was born in Bombay but raised in Karkala a small town, 50 KM away from Mangalore, and passed Collage Degree from Mangalore University.
I am the middle one of 3 Children; we do not have sisters, Raised by God fearing Family. Since Beginning we used to help mother in her household things, so we mastered all house hold things, and we used to do our own, cleaning/washing/laundry.
Even today I can challenge any women in cooking or any household things.
In college also, I was not Famous, nor notorious, just an ordinary …

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[7 Nov 2007 | No Comment | ]

My Missing Rib; It was Arranged marriage, My Mother sister told she knew them very well; so we did not checked anything about her.
Here is bit Details about her.
She was born in Udipi but Raised in Bombay at her Uncle home, along with 5 Cousin sisters; They Dominated her whole life so far, and she will do as they say, Thats how she stabbed me on my back.
She spend her childhood in Bombay, when child her parents abandon her and her Brother, till 13 year old she was at uncle …

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[7 Nov 2007 | One Comment | ]

After our Engagement she and her Family came to my native home;
I took her to our Farm to show around.
At that time, I asked many things about her; that was the 1st time we met and talked together.
I asked her to tell about her College life; I know she done her elementary and high school at Bombay when she was staying with her uncle home. Later came to native place for College.
I did`t asked, she had Boyfriend or not but I asked, how was the college and your Friends.
She knew …

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[7 Nov 2007 | 3 Comments | ]

Why I`m Dowry Law Victim.
All Over world, governments make laws to punish Crimnals,and Law breakers; But in india, its a business to creat job opertunities for lawyers,
Only Law to trap Innocent;
Its a Marriage Splitter;
A Family Breaker,
Thats Ok, but why i`m a Victim….
Beacuse i`m a Man,
Married to an Indian Women.
Beacuse i did not took any dowry;
Because i`m an ordinary man and she was jelous when i was sending only 500 Rs once in 2 months to my parents.
Because i was not doing as she or her parents says.
Because i foundout her …

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[7 Nov 2007 | 4 Comments | ]

As I said; it was an arranged marriage.
So we married first and made love.
We got married in my native place Mangalore and after a week I came back to Bombay, where I was working.
Then I started to know her.
She did`t know how to cook, she never been to kitchen, Even she washed onions, so you can imagine, how much she knows about cooking.
I am Lucky she did`t washed salt before add it to dish.
I told her how to do what, how much salt and sugar to be added, but whatever …

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[7 Nov 2007 | No Comment | ]

After Marriage we have a custom to invite newly wed couple for lunch or dinner;
So After our wedding we were invited by many in my native place when we were in native place for one week.
I hardly go to others house for eat, so I did`t go, other than my Brothers wife home and her uncle house, as my all neighbors also invited us, I nicely refused, same her neighbors also invited us. We were at native place only one week after marriage. She was angry I did make it …

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[7 Nov 2007 | No Comment | ]

As I wrote before, that was not the starting of Crack in my marriage, sometimes I think, it was soon after Marriage.
After few days of marriage, when we were still in native place, my parents and she went to her house for a visit.
After marriage I gave some gold to her, including one bracelet. After our visit to her parents to return my home we have to change 2 buses. I told her while dress up, wear that bracelet correctly, coz I knew its hook was tight. She said, no …

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[7 Nov 2007 | One Comment | ]

Her Father came to Bombay to check how we are, after 2 months of marriage. As she was reporting Everything, whatever happened at home, Even her sister knew about our Personal Life, Sex, where we made love and how and her Cousin sister was Questioning me.
When she told “she is not my slave to do house hold things” I told this to her Cousin Sister, but she laughed at me; same I called her mother and told at the same time. But she did`t uttered anything against her.
After her Father …

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[7 Nov 2007 | 5 Comments | ]

Anyone seen any Indian Women demanding DIVORCE in 2 weeks of Marriage.?
I should not tell anything; guide or advice her too.she was beahving like she know Everything, but knew nothing.
Not only tell something;if i know she is going to make mistake i should not warn her;
Like;
do not keep gas flame high, it will burn the dish
do not put more water in grinder, it will spill
same i told; do not put more rice in Grinder it will not grind well, but unfortunatly grinder motor got burnt;
she was blaming me, my tongue;
whatever …


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