They have careers, ambitions and children to take care of stories of men as single parents. That’s the focus on Zindagi Live this week.
Mrs. Kumble’s Ex husband have to stay away from his only daughter inspite of? taking care?more thaqn?10 years as a Single Father?, but?last 3 years his daughter handed over to Mrs. Kumble by our great Judges of Supreme Court with the reson that , as Mrs. Kumble’s ex-husbands home there is no women, so he can’t be able to maintian the daughter without a women.
Judge asked : Do you have any women in your Home?
Husband: My loard , I am taking care my daughter without any women and she is very happy also see her school record and all the photograph.
Judge: No , a man can’t take care the child with out a women , first arrange a women in your women to take care the child and till the time the temoporary custedy of the Child will be with Mrs. Kumble.
Now to get the Daughter’s he have to get?remarried and appealed to the court with the ground , yes now I have a Women in my home , give me back my daughter.
I judge says Man cann`t raise daughter without women at home, then how can he give boy child custody to mother, instead father…?
Same Questions asked to me;
My wife took my son with her, till 5 years no lawyer is ready to take my custody case, after 3 years, they left, i appeal for custody;
judge asked, for last 3 years why did not appeal for the custody, why now to harass her ? this is our biased judge Quesion before taking new appeal; even they know Father cann`t ask custody till child is 5 year old.
when my son was with me, i took care more than his mother, i used to get up not less than 3 times to chnage his wet cloths [ Ref : http://mynation.net/abio/oil-massage/ ] when she was snoring.
I gave all photos and information, how happy he was with me and how i was looking after him; this case run for almost 5 years and she came only once and said; Every my word is false. without giving any proofs and judge beleive in her but not the proofs i gave.
and on my last date ; judge asked who is there in my house to look after.
I said, My Mother, she raised 3 boys, non has any bad habits smoking or drinking even Beer, elder one is Gold medalist in Engineering; I work for IBM and younger one is successful businessman.
Her lawyer said; My lord his mother too old to take care,
when my lawyer objected; even her mother is same age and child mother also in Dubai.
As per above Kumble case; My lawyer said; he will get marry, so you have one more women to look after…..
Judge intrepted and asked to stop him.
Can you give gurantee that other women can take care…? a child is not hers…?
so judges decide, not with virtues, or good qualities how father raise his children; it is by default givin to women in india.
if you are single they give reason, you do not have women at home. if you says you will get marry again, they ask guarantee that other women will take care ?
So; My Petition was dismissed without giving any Verdict……
It is not only with Mrs. Kumble’s ex-husabnds, every year more than 30,000 child had been forced to live in a Father less society by our Judges as they simply refused to consder the pain of a Father for thier Child.
Society as well as LAW failed to recornise the contrubtion of a Father for their child and they had been always treated as a Free ATM machine, thier emotion and love taken as a granted and in return we had wittness several father’s silent tears in our gorup weekly meeting , how they had been deprived to evn have a look to thier child by our Judges and LAW makers, but do not forget to order huge maintiance in the name of child well fare.
But the question is unanswered: Why the Judges and LAW makers do not ready to accept that a man also can take care the child , where we allready wittness :
But IBN7 Zindgi Live expose the truth a single father also can take care the child behond resonable dought and out of 5 father , 4 are with daughter and hope our those Judges will have a look this progrrame and come to the reality of 21st Century , instead of thier assumption based theroy that to take the child you need a women in your home?.
On the other Hand we wittness a lot of huge and cry by our Radical Feminsit group that Indian men do not take care child, but they never say that they never allowed the Indian Fathers or given?any oppurtunity to take care the child, as they had been treated only as a Free ATM machine in case of any dispute comes regarding decision of taking care the child.