Nothing to tell about past….

After our Engagement she and her Family came to my native home;

I took her to our Farm to show around.

At that time, I asked many things about her; that was the 1st time we met and talked together.

I asked her to tell about her College life; I know she done her elementary and high school at Bombay when she was staying with her uncle home. Later came to native place for College.

I did`t asked, she had Boyfriend or not but I asked, how was the college and your Friends.

She knew it what I asked.

She said nothing to tell like… that was the hint I never understood.

Later I found out after marriage, she wanted to marry someone else and her Father forced her to marry me, when her parents found I am the suitable boy.

More shocking news I found out later after marriage was, one boy came to marry her before me, but later they rejected her, because they found out about her Past.

8 thoughts on “Nothing to tell about past….

  1. Why do Indian men,such as author of post above ,OBSESS over the wife’s past? Why is the word past seen with such greedy curiosity as though to rate a woman’s worth?? Whether you are compatible,understand and love each other within your marriage and going forward is ultimately what is important.If pasts of all the men who come her and whine abt their wives’ pasts were to be checked,surely it’s not going to be as perfect as Lord Ram,will it be?

    To obsess too much about someone’s past,partner’s or one’s own,is frankly a kind of psychological disease.
    QUOTE- ” I wanted a girl just like Sitaji, and I searched the whole wide world for her.One day I found my Sita,but her reply was-Sorry I cannot marry you,as I want a man just like Lord Ram”.

  2. Its not the obsession but the Honesty and Transparency, which these days women either do not believe in or always hide.

    It is not rating also, its just seeing if both are compatible. If one person is honest, opens up and tells everything about himself and then the girl keeps her personal stuff secret and then after marriage creates nuisance and goes to court. Why? Just to get Rs/$$ and get back to eX.

    This is so common these days. All lies.

  3. When two persons meet each other and start their live as a husband wife o as a lovers, they have no right to snatch their past from each other. Nor they can change the past of themselves so why they create so such type of situations to play with the feelings of each other. It z good enough, to lead your life from there, where you meet for the first time to your partner and don’t start your life from the day when the existence of both is not their.

  4. INDU you are promoting FREE sex society. its India not America.

    That girl should think, before having pre marital affair and Marry a boy who has not had pre marital Affair.

    She has to disclose and tell truth about her past, before she get marry, if its OK with boy then no problem. it should not be like boy find out later and he is do not want to continue with such girls.

    I can blame girl 100% for ruining innocent boys life. coz Girls like you sleep around with many and marry a Innocent, thats what you comment says. RIGHT ?

  5. Very well said Mr. Ravi. Your words are exactly what I would speak out. My ex-wife cheated me and ruined my life. I warned her a million times that if she had any past not to marry me as I ddn’t have a past. She had not one but many affairs where she had at least 10 years of illegal physical relationship with many guys and convinced me that she is very decent. Later on she admitted this and I divorced her. Now she has filed a false case of 498a against me and my family. It’s because of such bad laws in place that the girls going towards bad direction and live their life as they wish.

  6. Rizwan,
    Unfortunately we cannot hope for any change coz mostly the members of women council at the center are basically wives or prostitutes of ministers- example is Renuka Choudhary, and the women council members are anti men and control freak they would never let any amendments happen on existing feminist laws or any change to it.Even if any minister tries to do it most probably his wife would be a member of woman council or for free sex by these woman council member for the minister is enough to stop him do anything.
    Also, modern day society is feminist example is Aamir Khan he showed so many episodes on women welfare in SATYA MEV JAYETE and not even once he showed anything for men which is the need of the hour and I have personally written to him about 498 misuse but no reply is sent to me. As aamir wants to be a hero in the eyes of women. Dats the truth of modern day men unless they r roped into it they will only support women for sexual favours dats d hard truth.
    Better let all men be subjected to 498 or DV then we expect something to happen till then pray.

  7. The time has become very bad.. The girls these days dont mind sex before marriage.. They think that they are very modern and they can do anything and their husband should except them without even asking about their past..

    U are right AMit.. Amir Khan himself divorced his first wife..but now he is giving shows on women welfare.. Its all about money..

  8. U r right Amit.. Girls these days expect that they can do anything beofre marriage and they should be excepted without asking about their past.. And the girls who are giving justification that they should not be asked about their past is
    openly encouraging sex without marriage

    Out culture is getting maligned and even the law is giving undude support to women

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