hwo to come out of the 498a section cases myself and my brother and my mother been put as acuste and how long the case will get prolong already the 2yrs passed and please guide me to save myself and my mother and brother

please guide me

sir please save us plz help

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wow..tat was quite a read..but am sure all u dirty men are nt tat innocent..wt bout a victim who is truly harrassed for dowry??

Very well written article.. i must say.. This article implies that even if men did the criminal deeds as per 498A, and if he is slapped with 498A, he shud consider him as Bhagat Singh, who is in jail for all the false allegation slapped aginst him by his wife (even if they r true). Its like GLORIFYING the all wrongs done by men. They never feel what they did was wrong. They will always attach some illogical reason to all their wrong doings to satisfy them selves. DIRTY MENtality.

My son is married to a cruel wife.She never cooks and wash at home.My wife is in govt job . My sons wife is also in govt job. Her sister is clerk in High court of pujab. She teases our family by making every false alligation that can be said in this world. please guide me.She has gone to home.many times we tried to patch up but they are threating us to file 498a.

//If she left your home and threatening with false 498a,then you can report it to Police, and also give them to take her all her stridhan if she brought anything.

You have to approch Police before they report.

if they given any dowry then,you can file FIR, as per dowry law (IPC 498A) giving dowry also crime Refer http://mynation.net/ipc.htm and ask Police to take back her dowry too.
–eDitor

nOW WE HAVE PATCHED UP BUT THE MOTHER IN LAW OF MY SON IS STILL IN THREATNING MOOD. lOOKS SHE HAS BECOME EGOFUL THAN THAT OF PREVIOU AS WE HAVE BOWED TO BRING THE BRIDE BACK. IF ANY GUIDECE AVAILABLE FROM ANY ONE WILL BE APPRECIATED.

A number of false cases are being filed U/S 498a IPC,but GOv is not taking any action to amend this cruel law.It completely ruins the husbands family because police makes money instead of probing the case to find the truth.There should not be any arrest till the case finalised.

Hello Saina,

If your husband slaps you, then file a case that he has slapped you. Why are you miss using the IPC 498A. Do you know for what 498A is used.

Hello Nagashree,

Here we are talking about “false” 498A case. If anybody has really been a victim of Dowry harassment, then let them prove it in the court.

Hello Saina & Nagashree,

I will just ask you one question. How would it be if your brother’s wife files a false 498A against your brother and you. How do you feel?

Hi Saina & Nagashree,

I would like to ask you one question. How would you feel when your brother’s wife files a false dowry complaint against your brother, you and your parents?

the answer to the above question is simply- the way you all will feel if your mother, sister or daughter is burnt for not bringing enough dowry…
you all are people who are colouring the world as white or black because perhaps your wife filed a false case against you(thats yet to be proved) every case by every women is false according to you.

Dr Mitu Khurana;

Where we said all women file False case. We do not colour anyone Blindly and we are Aware about Law and make sure that our mother sisters will not burnt for dowry Instead we will report it Police, if our Sisters Inlaws demand dowry, and We will not make our sisters get married to the Person who demand Dowry.

We are Against Giving and taking dowry, We fight aginst it because we are harassed even we have`t took or demand any dowry.

and As per NCRB statistics 98% of these dowry cases are False.

Dr. Mitu Khurana,

Even home minister is saying that law is highly misused, so not to arrest people

CJI admitted this long back that Section 498a is highly misused.

What world you are living in?

do you know from 2004 to 2007 136000 female were arrested just because of this law?

If you ahve data which show the 498a is genuine more than 5 % pls let us know..

Even US have issued notice to all NRI who come to india for marriage saying that beware before marrying indian girl.

Dr. Mitu Khurana,

Going by the logic you’ve mentioned, if wives of your brother/son/nephew file a false case against them, then you’ll support such a wife for the simple reason that in your imagination – only a woman can be a harrassed lot, and all the male members are actually cruel, just because they are male.

You can understand the plight of such a male member only when you have witnessed it closely. OR, maybe you do not have any male members you are connected to, that’s why you can’t understand all this at all!!

Why not consider suggesting your mom to file a false case against your dad?
Afterall, such false cases most of the time get filed even for small arguements.

BTW, can you answer a simple Q: If, by chance, you have a son and her wife files such a false case on you and entire famliy, and all are put behind bars, how do you plan to support such a wife (woman, right!!)?

(Don’t say it’ll never happen to you ’cause you are a good human being, as our moms have been equally good but still facing false cases)

http://www.psychiatryonline.com/pracGuide/loadGuidelinePdf.aspx?file=BPD_05-15-06

Dr. Khurana,

You are going thru BDH prob, please read the document careful All i can wish, Get well soon.

Harmony

Good article to educate all the MEN’s who are planning to Marry. Is the trust completely gone in life? I believe women should introspect such things before accusing others. Ultimately money has no meaning without a together relationship which is the purpose of marriage.

family mater
we are facing some problem with my wife named —- she is tourching me from last two yers with mentally & physicaly. if i tell her any thing then she alweys tell me about the right og women.today when i tell her parents about this matter and i also tell them about our mutual divorce then they throath me and they also tell to kill me with the help of politically party. please tell me how to safe my son age 3 yrs. and me & my family. pls tell me as soon as possable thanking you. my mather -in – low tell me she lonch against me 498. what is 498 & how to save me from this 498.

I married to girl age 19 on 15th May,2010.But she did not behaved well from 1st day.somehow I managed to continue with her.But in June,2010 when I took her to her house so that she can meet her families she ignored to return with me.After that from her own house she ran off with another guy & stayed with him for four days.This we had come to know from her family who themselves told us.Now she is at her homeBut when I told her to give me khula she is refusing it not exactly telling what they want from me.Even I have a letter from jammat in which it is mentioned that she has done such culprit & husband is right on his place,after conforming from her relatives.

if you have been loveing ur wife,than dont fear about 498. because 498 will not disturb u. it will disturb her…

Friends, being so favourable and against to this section we have tremendous cases been have filed every day in India. Many families are alliged to be victims of this 498A IPC and have already being punished for what they have not commited. This is happenning only becoz of a wicked wife and her parental families who want their cruel wishes to be fulfilled like monetary and property of a husband, who makes suffer an innocent husband and his family too. I humbly submit that this is only a gift suffering given by those wicked and cruel husbands who in real have killed their wifes/attempted to kill them with very cruel hurts on their body for only cause of dowry/additional dowry.

My dear friends we should also feel the pain to those innocent/familes are suffering with these cruel sections…. so why sholdn’t we take step forward to humiliate our Indian Lawmakers to get those positive sections into actions which will not attack innocent and be a tool for the wicked.

My real good idea to waive off 498A or reconcile this section to be a Civil case instead a Criminal and after a real investigation made should come into action a criminal case for the accused who have commited such sin and be punished.

very clear view is it should not be given into hands of our own Indian Police. Only such cases should be under their province where the crime is clearly known and proved by wittnesses examined at the place of commitment

Matrimonial case can’t be of criminal kind coz for instance if wife gets anger we can only see her poor husband to be behind the bars. Just imagine how could be this justice.

CrPr 498A IPC – cant reconcile a marriage, which we belive that “marriages are made in heaven”
(this section proves the above statement to be false) India had a great culture and tradition from centuries to have one husband and one wife who lived together for their lifetime. Whereas here we can only find family breakings but no reconciliation to get joined their family back. We on ourself making the mindset of a father of a girl to get himself strong to face his son-inlaw in any unfavourable circumstance to attack him with this section whom for his own benifits can put behind bars.

I respect/salute/hatsoff to those WOMEN who have been adjusted so far for small issues raised in her inlaws-family and understood loved her husband and changed them for being good to them with great love and affection and kept up their familes alive untill their lifetime. WE CAN SEE OUR MOTHERS/SISTERS/RELATIVES & FRIENDS.

My honest request to those young girls/guys planning to marriage or have a girl friend/boy friend to be carefull whom they are choosing and wat their life could be……plsssss think broad and u cant allige either of them for not being happy nd for your own problems after marriage where issues are ur life partners and if u both fail to handle them together which may also result in section 498A and other’s. I am sure if this continues there is no surprife if in India we find 60+% of broken families.

India is great, Indians are great and Indian families are real great to our nation who stand stars for our culture and tradition’s

Pleaseeeee save families and relationship’s. only faith and love can improve this situation, as such your own love will redeem your life for no surprise.

I love my wife so much who caryy my baby right now being 7nth month, but very unfortunate whose father who has no monthy income has forced/motivated her against me and my mother for only cause of money and property from me and my father for his benifits. I am sure my wife too love me so much but i am not sur how could her father cahnge her against me NOW WHO HAS LEFT ME ALONE NOT EVEN IN A SITUATION WHERE I CAN GO AND TAKE CARE OF MY WIFE’S DELIVERY AND SEE MY BABY TAKING INTO MY HANDS GIVING HER MY FIRST KISS….I COULD BE A POOR FATHER WHAT I FEEL COZ I WAS DREAMING FOR MY BABY SINCE LAST SEVEN MONTHS.

FRIENDS PLEASE PRAY TO GOD FOR ME AND FOR MY WIFE NOT TO BREAK UP COZ OF HER GREEDY FATHER…….

Thank You All!!!!!! for who have prayed for us.

hello thanks a lot for giving so much strength and writing in detail about the harrasement.
i am also a victim of the 498a false dowry case.
and not even for a single moment i lost the faith in me and my strength, and my trueness.
i believe in bagavadgita and i believe in truth will prevail today or tomorrow.
we need patience to overcome all the troubles and come out successfully. once again thank you for the information.
devaraj

hi all
my sister really facing problem my mom is retd and we lost my father spouse famly realy harrassing her for dowry plz 498is not always fake case