S. vs M.K. on 23 February, 2018

% Decided on: 23.02.2018
+ MAT.APP.(F.C.) 2/2018, CM Nos. 64/2018 (stay), 65/2018 (Exemption)
and CM No. 66/2018 (Condonation of delay in filing the appeal)
S. ….. Appellant
Through: Mr Imran Ali and Mr Johar Adeeb,
M.K. ….. Respondent

Through: None.



1. The present appeal has been filed under Section 19 of the

Family Courts Act, 1984, impugning the judgment dated 31.10.2017,

whereby the marriage between the parties was dissolved on the

ground of cruelty being committed by the appellant/wife.

2. The admitted facts of the case are that the marriage between the

appellant/wife and the respondent/husband was solemnized on

11.07.2008 at Delhi according to Hindu rites and ceremonies. After

consummation of the marriage, a male child, namely, Samesth was

born out of the wedlock on 10.03.2010.

3. The petition for divorce on the ground of cruelty was filed by

the husband against the wife. His contentions were that her behaviour

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was cruel, she never paid attention to the household chores and

refused to perform any work; that she also used to pick up quarrels

with him and his mother and sister-in-law (Bhabhi) although she was

always treated with love and affection by them and his brother. She

wanted him to turn out his family members from the house on the

ground that the house belonged to her husband. He had also contended

that she had threatened to commit suicide and used to go to her

parental home without informing him; that she always used to say that

“mai tumahri naukrani nahi hoon”; that she had also abused him and

his family members with filthy language and also used to threaten him

and his family members to implicate them in a false dowry case.

4. He further contended that she was in the habit of picking up

quarrel without any rhyme and reason and on 15.09.2009, she

quarreled with him and when he tried to pacify her, she threatened to

commit suicide also threatening that she had already written a suicide

note in which she had implicated him and his family members, as

persons responsible for her suicide. He has averred that on

25.04.2010, in the birthday party of their child, despite the invitation

extended to the family of the wife, only her brothers, namely, Tarun

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and Pramod attended the birthday party and even in their presence,

she had quarreled with him and threatened to teach a lesson to him

and his family members. In its petition, the husband contended that he

wanted to go on spiritual tour to Madhya Pradesh on 14.07.2010, but

she created a scene and did not allow him to go and threatened to

divorce him if he dares to go. On 15.10.2010, when his mother and

Bhabhi had gone to attend a Jagran, she quarreled and manhandled

him and he had to call the PCR at 11.15 PM. The Police reached at the

house and even in their presence, she threatened to get a false dowry

case registered against him and his family members. She went to her

parental home and on 06.11.2010 when she wanted to return to

matrimonial home, she called him asking to take her back to the

matrimonial home from her parental home; and she refused to

consider his request to ask her brother to drop her. Upon this, she got

furious and levelled false allegations of theft on his mother and

brother and claiming that they had removed certain articles from her

house. She had again picked up quarrel on 02.01.2011 on a small

issue of taking care of the child and locked herself in a room and

threatened to commit suicide. When despite repeated requests, she

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refused to open the door, he called the Police. It was Police, who got

the door opened and took them to Police Station. Thereafter, from that

day, i.e., 02.01.2011, she started residing in a separate room and

refused to perform the marital obligations. The husband, on these

contentions, had sought divorce on the ground of cruelty.

5. In the written statement, the appellant/wife has denied all the

averments in the petition for divorce. She had alleged that she was not

treated with love and affection and abuses were hurled on her for no

reason. She had also averred that petitioner had illicit relations. She

had further contended that the husband and his family members had

treated her badly and tried to get excuses for their illicit relations and

misdeeds. Since she had objected to her husband’s illicit relationship

with his Bhabhi they had all joined hands to get rid of her. She

averred that she is a well-educated lady, knows her dignity, self-

respect and is also aware of her duties towards her husband and family

members, but she was treated as a maid servant. She had denied that

she often threatened to commit suicide or file false cases against the

husband or his family members. She has specifically denied the

incident of 20.04.2009, 15.09.2009 and 25.04.2010. She had further

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averred that on 15.10.2010, it was she who had called the Police and

the Police had settled the matter by counseling the husband and

advising him to take care of his wife and minor son instead of taking

side of Bhabhi and elder brother, etc. She contends that it was on that

day that she came to know for the first time about the illicit relations

of her husband with his Bhabhi.

6. On these pleadings of the parties, on 03.08.2011, the learned

Family Judge had framed the following issues:-

“1. Whether the respondent after the solemnization of
marriage has treated the petitioner with cruelty? OPP

2. Relief.”

7. The record shows that the husband has examined himself as

PW-1 and exhibited marriage card as Ex.PW-1/1; photographs of

marriage as EX.PW-1/2-4 (colly); copy of complaint made by him to

SHO PS R.K. Puram as Ex.PW-1/5; copy of complaint dated

29.10.2010 as Ex.PW-1/6; copy of newspaper publication as Ex.PW-

1/7; copy of complaint dated 24.02.2011 as Ex.PW-1/8; copy of

complaint dated 16.06.2011 as Ex.PW-1/9.

8. The appellant/wife also examined herself as RW-1 and proved

on record the marriage photographs, marriage card and copy of birth

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certificate of minor son as Ex.RW-1/1, RW-1/2 and RW-1/3, list of

dowry articles/stridhan as Ex.RW-1/4 (colly); copy of R.C. of car and

photograph as Ex.RW-1/5 (colly); copy of pension book of

respondent’s mother as Ex.RW-1/6; leave record of respondent as

Ex.RW-1/7; copy of RTI reply dated 03.06.2014 along with pay slip

of April, 2014 and medical leave as Ex.RW-1/8 (colly); photographs

of respondent’s brother in-laws’ marriage as Ex.RW-1/9 (colly); copy

of complaint dated 23.03.2011 as Ex.RW-1/11 (colly); original bills

pertaining to maintenance of car, BSES bill, Delhi Jal Board, school

fee bills etc. as Ex.RW-1/12; medical bills during 2011-2012 is

Ex.RW-1/13 (colly). She had also examined in support of her case,

her uncle Shri Om Prakash as RW-2.

9. After examining the evidences on record, the Family Court, on

the basis of evidences on record, concluded that the husband has

successfully proved the incident of 02.01.2011. The relevant

paragraphs are reproduced as under:-

“42. The petitioner has also pleaded and deposed that
on 02.01.2011, respondent bolted herself inside the
room and threatened the petitioner to commit suicide.
The respondent did not open the room despite the
requests of the petitioner, due to which police was
called and police got opened the door.

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44. The respondent has thus not disputed that she tried
to commit suicide by handing herself with her chunni
on 15.09.2009 and threatened the petitioner to
implicate him. She has also not disputed that she
bolted herself in the room on 02.01.2011 and
threatened the petitioner to commit suicide. The
petitioner has thus duly proved on record these facts
against the respondent.”

10. As regards the other contentions of the husband that on

15.10.2010, an altercation had occurred between him and the

appellant in the absence of his mother and brother, during which she

had also manhandled him and the Police was called and the wife

threatened for getting false case registered against him, the learned

Family Judge has held as under:-

“46. The petitioner has reiterated the said plea in
para 18 of his examination in chief. The respondent
has thoroughly cross-examined the petitioner but his
testimony regarding above plea has remained
uncontroverted. The respondent has not carried out
any cross-examination of PW-1 in this aspect. In the
absence of any cross-examination, the respondent has
deemed to have admitted the above plea.”

11. The learned Family Judge also held as under:-

“47. The petitioner has also made various
specific allegations of cruelty against the respondent in
his petition. He also reiterated these allegations in his
deposition. The respondent has extensively cross-

examined and petitioner but his testimony has

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remained unhampered and petitioner has successfully
passed the acid test of cross-examination”.

12. The learned Family Judge has also observed that the wife had

taken the plea in her written statement that the husband and his family

members were trying to get “excuses for their illicit relations and

deeds and misdeeds” and had also noted the averments of the wife in

para 4c of the written statement to the effect that they had connived

with each other to get rid of the wife “who is objecting to illicit

relations of the petitioner with his Bhabhi ” and also her averment that

“no wife shall ever allow her husband be shared by anyone else

physically, socially and financially.” The Family Judge has also noted

the averments made in para 4n of the written statement made by the

appellant that on 15.10.2010, when the Police amicably settled the

matter, she came to know that “it was the first day when the

respondent came to know about the illicit relations of the petitioner

with his Bhabhi”. The learned Family Judge has observed that despite

making such serious allegations in the written statement, the wife has

not led any evidence to prove these allegations. The learned Family

Judge has held as under:-

“53. The respondent though levelled these serious
allegation against petitioner in her written statement.

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But the respondent has not made even a whisper of
above allegations in her deposition. The above
allegations levelled by the respondent regarding the
illicit relations of petitioner and his sister-in-law
(Bhabhi) in WS has not been substantiated by her as
she has not made a single averment in her deposition
in this regard nor she has led any other evidence to
substantiate the said allegation.”

13. Thereafter, relying on the findings of Vijaykumar Ramchandra

Bhate vs. Neela Vijaykumar Bhate AIR 2003 SC 2462, the learned

Family Judge has held that such reckless and bald allegations without

any cogent proof, itself amounts to gravest form of mental cruelty and

held that the husband has succeeded in proving that the wife had

committed cruelty upon him of such a nature which endangers his life

and it was not possible for him to continue to live in the relationship

and thereby dissolved their marriage.

14. The wife has impugned the said judgment on several grounds.

It is argued that the learned Family Judge has erred in appreciating the

evidence that the petition filed by the respondent/husband was based

on false and concocted facts; that the learned Family Judge has failed

to appreciate the evidences correctly and also failed to keep in mind

that there is a seven year old son and the respondent cannot run away

from his responsibility of a father. The appellant has further stated that

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she is a housewife and has no means to maintain her. It is further

contended that the impugned order is bad in law because the burden to

prove the cruelty was upon the respondent which he had failed to

discharge. On these contentions, it is submitted that the impugned

order be set aside.

15. We have given thoughtful consideration to the contentions of

the parties.

16. The respondent had filed the petition for divorce under Section

13(1)(ia) of Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 (hereinafter referred to as the

‘said Act’ on the ground of cruelty. In the said Act, the expression

‘cruelty’ is not defined. However, the expression of ‘cruelty’ vis-à-vis

the matrimonial obligations and duties has been elaborately discussed

and defined.

17. In Shobha Rani v. Madhukar Reddi, (1988) 1 SCC 105, the

Supreme Court has held that the expression “treated the petitioner

with cruelty” as used in Section 13(1)(ia) of the said Act is used in

relation to human conduct or human behaviour. It is the conduct in

relation to or in respect of matrimonial duties and obligations. The

Supreme Court had further observed that “cruelty may be mental or

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physical, intentional or unintentional.” It is not difficult to determine

the physical cruelty. However, the determination of mental cruelty

poses a difficulty. The Court observed as under:-

“4. …If it is mental the problem presents difficulty. First,
the enquiry must begin as to the nature of the cruel
treatment. Second, the impact of such treatment on the
mind of the spouse. Whether it caused reasonable
apprehension that it would be harmful or injurious to live
with the other. Ultimately, it is a matter of inference to be
drawn by taking into account the nature of the conduct
and its effect on the complaining spouse….”

18. The Court also observed as under:-

“5. ..The cruelty alleged may largely depend upon the
type of life the parties are accustomed to or their
economic and social conditions. It may also depend upon
their culture and human values to which they attach
importance. We, the judges and lawyers, therefore,
should not import our own notions of life. We may not go
in parallel with them. There may be a generation gap
between us and the parties…”

19. In V. Bhagat v. D. Bhagat, (1994) 1 SCC 337 , the Apex Court

has held that mental cruelty is result of “conducts which inflicts upon

the other party such mental pain and suffering as would make it not

possible for that party to live with the other.” The Court had further

observed as under:-

“16. ….In other words, mental cruelty must be of such a
nature that the parties cannot reasonably be expected to
live together. The situation must be such that the wronged

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party cannot reasonably be asked to put up with such
conduct and continue to live with the other party. It is not
necessary to prove that the mental cruelty is such as to
cause injury to the health of the petitioner. While arriving
at such conclusion, regard must be had to the social
status, educational level of the parties, the society they
move in, the possibility or otherwise of the parties ever
living together in case they are already living apart and
all other relevant facts and circumstances which it is
neither possible nor desirable to set out exhaustively.
What is cruelty in one case may not amount to cruelty in
another case. It is a matter to be determined in each case
having regard to the facts and circumstances of that case.
If it is a case of accusations and allegations, regard must
also be had to the context in which they were made.”

20. In Parveen Mehta v. Inderjit Mehta, (2002) 5 SCC 706, the

Supreme Court in para 21 of the judgment has again reiterated that the

cruelty has to be ascertained from the behaviour of one spouse

towards the other and where the behaviour is of such a nature which

causes reasonable apprehension in the minds of the latter, about his or

her safety to continue in the relationship with the other, such a

behaviour constitutes cruelty. The Court further held that “mental

cruelty is a state of mind and feeling with one of the spouses due to

the behaviour or behavioural pattern by the other.” The Court has

further observed that “it is necessarily a matter of inference to be

drawn from the facts and circumstances of the case. A feeling of

anguish, disappointment and frustration in one spouse caused by the
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conduct of the other can only be appreciated on assessing the

attending facts and circumstances in which the two partners of

matrimonial life have been living. The inference has to be drawn from

the attending facts and circumstances taken cumulatively. In case of

mental cruelty it will not be a correct approach to take an instance of

misbehaviour in isolation and then pose the question whether such

behaviour is sufficient by itself to cause mental cruelty. The approach

should be to take the cumulative effect of the facts and circumstances

emerging from the evidence on record and then draw a fair inference

whether the petitioner in the divorce petition has been subjected to

mental cruelty due to conduct of the other.”

21. In another case tilted as Savitri Pandey v. Prem Chandra

Pandey, (2002) 2 SCC 73, the Apex Court in para 6 of the judgment

has observed that normal wear and tear of the family life does not

constitute cruelty. The Court further held that “it cannot be decided

on the basis of the sensitivity of the petitioner and has to be adjudged

on the basis of the course of conduct which would, in general, be

dangerous for a spouse to live with the other.”

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22. In A. Jayachandra v. Aneel Kaur, (2005) 2 SCC 22, the Apex

Court in para 10 has held that “legal cruelty has to be found out, not

merely as a matter of fact, but as the effect on the mind of the

complainant spouse because of the acts or omissions of the other.

Cruelty may be physical or corporeal or may be mental. In physical

cruelty, there can be tangible and direct evidence, but in the case of

mental cruelty there may not at the same time be direct evidence. In

cases where there is no direct evidence, courts are required to probe

into the mental process and mental effect of incidents that are brought

out in evidence. It is in this view that one has to consider the evidence

in matrimonial disputes.

(emphasis supplied)

23. The Court has further held that to constitute cruelty, the

conduct complained of should be of „grave and weighty‟ and

something more than “ordinary wear and tear of married life”. The

Apex Court in A. Jayachandra (supra), also observed in para 12 that

“mental cruelty may consist of verbal abuses and insults by using

filthy and abusive language leading to constant disturbance of mental

peace of the other party.”

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24. It is also settled law that while appreciating the evidences in

these matters, it is the totality of the circumstances which are to be

considered. The contemporaneous nature of evidences is important.

The Family Court had arrived at the conclusion that the husband has

succeeded in proving the facts that the appellant was abusive and was

in the habit of picking up quarrel frequently and has also threatened to

commit suicide and has implicated the husband and his family

members in the suicide note. From her behaviour that she had bolted

herself in a room and did not open the door of the room and then

threatened to commit suicide also stands proved. The

contemporaneous evidences which are in the form of complaints filed

by the husband with the Police against such behaviour of the wife also

support his case. The fact that the Police had visited the matrimonial

house of the appellant on such complaints by her husband also stands

proved on record. It is also noteworthy that while the husband had

made complaints against her behaviour with the Police, the wife has

not made any complaint during her stay with the respondent and his

family members. The only complaint which she allegedly made is

dated 23.03.2011, which has been apparently made after the

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institution of the petition for divorce by the husband which was

instituted on 02.02.2011. The said complaint seems to be a counter

blast. Her contemporaneous conduct, as complained by the

respondent, also gets validation by the fact that in her written

statement, she had made allegations not only against her husband, but

also against entire family of her husband by stating that they all were

indulging into illicit relations. She has clearly averred in her written

statement in para 4b that they tried to get excuses for their illicit

relations and deeds and misdeeds. Again in para 4c of her written

statement, she had averred that the petitioner, i.e., the respondent and

his family members connived with each other to get rid of the

respondent, since she had objected to his illicit relations with his

Bhabhi. She had again in para 4n of her written statement, alleged that

on 15.10.2010, she came to know about the illicit relations of the

respondent/husband with his Bhabhi. The learned counsel for the

appellant has failed to point out any evidence produced by the

appellant on record to substantiate these allegations. The learned

Family Court has observed in the impugned judgment that “these are

unsubstantiated charges and are bald allegations which has been

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made recklessly”. Such allegations about having illicit relations with

Bhabhi certainly fall within the category of grave and weighty cruelty.

These unsubstantiated allegations are of the nature to cause mental

suffering to a person against whom such allegations are levelled. The

appellant has not only levelled such bald allegations against her

husband, but also against her sister-in-law (wife of elder brother of the

respondent) and thereby maligning her reputation as well. She has in

fact indulged into an act of character assassination of her husband and

his Bhabhi.

25. In Vijaykumar Ramchandra Bhate v. Neela Vijaykumar

Bhate, (2003) 6 SCC 334, the Supreme Court has clearly held as


“7. …..The position of law in this regard has come to
be well settled and declared that levelling disgusting
accusations of unchastity and indecent familiarity with
a person outside wedlock and allegations of
extramarital relationship is a grave assault on the
character, honour, reputation, status as well as the
health of the wife….”

26. Again in Vishwanath Agrawal v. Sarla Vishwanath Agrawal,

(2012) 7 SCC 288, the Apex Court has held as under:-

“46…..Thus, we have no scintilla of doubt that the
uncalled-for allegations are bound to create mental
agony and anguish in the mind of the husband….”

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27. In a recent judgment in Narendra v. K. Meena, (2016) 9 SCC

455, the Supreme Court has held as under:-

“16. ….Except for the baseless and reckless
allegations, there is not even the slightest evidence that
would suggest that there was something like an affair
of the appellant with the maid named by the
respondent. We consider levelling of absolutely false
allegations and that too, with regard to an extra-
marital life to be quite serious and that can surely be a
cause for mental cruelty….”

28. We find that leveling of false allegations of illicit relations of

such nature and magnitude causes mental pain, agony and suffering to

the husband. Such allegations causes profound and lasting disruptions

in the relationships and also causes deep hurt and reasonable

apprehension that it would be dangerous to live with a wife, especially

when she is also threatening to commit suicide.

29. The Supreme Court in Narendra (supra) has clearly stated as


“11…..No husband would ever be comfortable with or
tolerate such an act by his wife and if the wife succeeds
in committing suicide, then one can imagine how a
poor husband would get entangled into the clutches of
law, which would virtually ruin his sanity, peace of
mind, career and probably his entire life. The mere
idea with regard to facing legal consequences would
put a husband under tremendous stress. The thought
itself is distressing. Such a mental cruelty could not
have been taken lightly by the High Court. In our
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opinion, only this one event was sufficient for the
appellant husband to get a decree of divorce on the
ground of cruelty. It is needless to add that such
threats or acts constitute cruelty. Our aforesaid view is
fortified by a decision of this Court in
Mahajan v. Dimple, (2011) 12 SCC 1 wherein it has
been held that giving repeated threats to commit
suicide amounts to cruelty.”

30. We are of the opinion that conclusion of the learned Family

Judge that the appellant had treated her husband with cruelty, cannot

be faulted. We find no infirmity and illegality in the impugned


31. For the reasons stated hereinabove, the present appeal fails and

is dismissed along with the pending applications, with no order as to




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