IM VERY LAZY TO RECHECK, SORRY FOR LOTS OF SPELLING/GRAMMER MISTAKES
and only those who related this subject know what i wrote.
I have been working in Kuwait for last 15 Years; in a Large IT section and most of the employees are Indians including very few Indian Ladies working as Secretaries. I am notorious to not to talk to any of these Ladies so far.
Lately in the end of the year 2015 one young lady Joined, even she was from my native place, I was not talking, I met her few times, as when I was going to my colleague at Teatime and she was coming there. Sometimes she used to come to my seat and talk for few minutes as she was open minded. I will call her ladyX here after.
Her way of talking is like, Kya bidoo, kaisa hai
In the month of January, I went to India, after 2 days in the evening I received a call from unknown number. It was from a Lady claiming to be SBI Bank Manager and asking about my FD in SBI, I said I do not have SBI account and not kept any FD, as I was suspecting someone was mimicking, later that call disconnected because of Signal range.
After Few minutes, call came again and it was LadyX, I was surprised how she got my number, as I have not given her my number, as I hardly knew her. Then she said she took it from my Teatime colleague. Moreover, said, she gave my number to her month and she want to talk. I said ok.
Next Day her Mother called came, she said they are in same town and she want to see my house, I said OK. Even they were totaly strangers, never seen or met them before, so at home to my wife I did not say anything than someone is coming whom I know in Kuwait.
Same Evening LadyX mother and along with her Brother came to my house, curiously my wife asked her Mother if her husband is working with me or how they know me, my wife was exclaimed when LadyX mother said her Daughter is working with me.
I offered then Tea/Coffee but they refused. Later I met her Mother and other Family members in town and Church before returning to Kuwait.
Once I am back in Kuwait, LadyX started to talk more and her mother used to call as she also came back to Kuwait. As LadyX was having Some Skin problem, I tried to get some medicine, just to help her. As LadyX was almost 28 year old and her Family was searching for suitable match her Mother asked me if I know any Good Boy, let her know.
As I found LadyX is Good Girl, when I went to India another time in August, I met my long lost Close Friend along with his Friend Josh, who was looking for a Match, My Friend said he is very good, noble one and working in UK, then I remembered LadyX and Gave them her Mother Phone number and showed LadyX photo on her Facebook account.
Moreover, strictly told, if he is calling her Mother let me know first so I will inform LadyX mother that I gave them her Number and if they can call.
But next day I thought I do not know much about Josh and his family, so I felt like I made a mistake, and same time Josh call came, asking me about LadyX, then I also remembered LadyX once said, when she was working in her earlier company she admired one Boy,
and same evening they both met me in the Market where I went to buy chicken, as I don’t wanted to involve in this matter as I hardly know both of them for some times only, I showed Josh LadyXs boys Facebook on my mobile whom she said Admired.
After that, no one called, so I thought they have forgotten or found other Girl.
Before coming back to Kuwait LadyX Mother called me and asked to Bring Wheat grass Powder, after searching for 5/6 Shops, I found in one, and they gave me packed, I took it as it is and Gave it to LadyX in Office.
Next day Morning LadyX called from home saying there is hole in Bottle of wheatgrass; I said I brought as they gave, I have not opened their pack, if you still doubt it return it.
I was shocked when she returned it; anyway, I took it back and used myself.
Later LadyX is moved other office and not meeting; one day morning at 7am she suddenly called and said whom I gave her details, why I am spoiling her name bla bla… I was very much surprised as I was not aware of anything.
Later I found out Josh gave both LadyX and her admirer Facebook to Bangalore based lady Manisha to background check and she found out ladyX and that boy were close, Josh wanted to know that they still in contact or not. After this issue, LadyX completely stopped talking to me, and I forgot the issue.
This happened in the month of August.
Months passed and one fine day early morning in December LadyX mother called, saying what I know about LadyX, who is Josh etc etc; I told I her LadyX stopped talking to me for last 2/3 months; Josh is bla bla I explained what had happened; I asked how she know him, then she said he messaged her, saying that they have found out LadyX was having Affair.
I said I am not aware of all those things but once Lady from Bangalore sent message in Google Hangout about LadyX, at that time I just ignored, as it is none of my business.
Then LadyX mother also recalled there was Email also saying same thing.
That made me Angry and I sent message to Josh, telling I referred her to him as I found her as a Good Girl and I am not aware what her background is and asked not to spoil her name. etc etc.
Same message I sent to Bangalore lady called Manisha also, telling her LadyX is Good girl may be someone gave her wrong info and not spoil her name,
In return Manisha, asked me, Why I am praising LadyX so much, is she related to me or I am in love with her. etc etc.
After my message to Josh, he stopped all communication with me and I blocked Manisha from our social cause Group.
After this Ladyx is moved back to my Office again.
Later Ladyx sent message why I am spoiling her name and sending mails and messages, even I was not aware what emails they are talking and what was in those emails.
Then her Mother also called asking if I know any Girl named Priya, as she is getting mails from her.
I said I am not aware anything and I was not sure who is sending emails.
Anyway whatever I said they will not believe. They were claiming it is me. If it is me then what I will gain out of it.
After this, Both LadyX and her mother blocked me in WhatsApp.
Then almost 2 weeks passed, and one evening there was missed call from unknown number; it was showing unknown coz I deleted all their numbers.
Then when I checked it is from LadyX; so next day I sent Hangout message to LadyX saying, if anything else is there to curse and blame, tell now and I am extremely sorry.
Then days passed once I saw LadyX in the morning; so I sent a mail saying.
“Today my day will pass nicely.”
After a week yesterday evening all of a sudden LadyX Father called me, saying why I am doing this, why I am sending mails why I am spoiling LadyX name etc.
I calmly said; I am not, I am not aware of any such things; tell me only if he has proof.
Then he said his Son also got message from Manisha.
That was total surprise, now Son and Father also joined in this.
I asked what had happened.
Few days back His son got a message asking if LadyX is his Sister.
Then yesterday he got another message, as Manisha wanted to ask 2 question to him.
One is “will he marry another married women?” or something like that
Then he was telling may be my wife knows about it and she is sending mails.
I said why she would send mails or i send such a message.
If it is me or my wife is sending message to their Son, as both us know LadyX is his sister. Why Manisha will ask if Ladyx is his sister. That means she do not know us.
Even they can check Writting style, grammer etc in emails they received, if they want to link everything to me.
Without thinking that they just want to blame me. it means LadyX already filled them with hatred towards me,
She moved to Other Office in August, fought with me for silly reason and stopped talking to me, if i was angry then i would have sent mail by then, if i wanted to defame her.
May be she found someone else there and something happened between them and he is angry on her, as she claim she told everything to me, she may be told same to others too; it all started after she moved back to my Office. May be other Office guy is angry or she started to ignore him whne she moved back to my Office.
May be she snatched someone else Boyfriend;
May be Failed Proposal;
May be someone saw her Profile on Shaadi and want to give some message to her Parents
May be its irked Ex or his wife for ruining their marriage.
Competition between 2 Adult youths in Jesus youth she attend, once she said someone proposed her, may be she ignored earlier one and found new one.
ALL THESE POSSIBILITIES I CAN GUESS. and its not for real
I am not sure about content of the Emails; As i remember she told about some of her old encounters about a Nepali, A Guy who proposed in the church, a Huge fellow from Bangalore, a North Indian of MBA and Al-Mulla guy; only that much i know. I never asked their name nor she tell anything. In anyone life we meet many, they come and go, may be as friends or a stranger for time-being, nothing to worry about them.
If there was noting to hide or done nothing wrong then no need to worry, whatever i said or whoever i name. Getting angry shows there was something to hide.
Whoever or whatever, i am not blaming her at all, its all her Parents Fault, they failed to guide her i can say.
What I suspect is, When 1st Josh message came, Mother may have questioned LadyX, LadyX may be asked or discussed same with some of her Friends and they sent some fake mails saying she was close with someone but just as casual friends, just to fool or give advance warning before to Parents if they try to find out, Josh or Manisha send mails again with some more details.
Create hatred in Parents mind against me, so in future also they will not ask me or if i say anything they will not listen to me, coz i know something that she want to hide. that what she wanted to Avoid.
As it is she is exposed but she tried to make use of it, coz i dont gain anything telling something against her or sending Emails or messages.
I am not sure why she hold so much Grudge against me, may be because when she was talking everyone who are not related to her work and some refered her as Chaloo and i was telling her not to do that, even she was calling herself as TOMBOY and continued same. OR Planned something that did`t happened.
Lastly only Time will tell; what she has done and what will happen to her Future, thats none of my business.
Anyway I made a mistake wishing Someone Good; Praying for them and trying to help.
I only wanted her past friendly meets should not effect her Future life, she may think its normal and casual but others may interpret in different way, thats what i cautioned her mother than nothing else, not to insult or Defame. Some day she will realise what i did was good or bad, hopefully
I forgot to write earlier; When her Father called me, he was asking why i sent message to her in the morning saying “Today i saw you and my day will pass nicely” i was surprised why she told this to her Father, as i have been sending such messages for year long but she never passed this info to her Family. May be she was pressurized to say something or save herself from their scrutiny or blame me for every events are going on.
I thought everything is over, and they lived happily ever after, but just now Manisha sent a message; even i do not reply to her messages. saying
Her Brother is asking for names of her Ex flames; (that shows trust issue within Family) Even she said she know one of their angry relative also
When she refused to give any names and details, as she gave word to me; he started to call her Sick mind.
She also sent some details of events happened.
Year: 2011,2012, 2015 and 2016.
After writing this, i sent this article link to Manisha, as she was keep on sending me, messages and asking many questions. Hope she will find all her Answers in this.
After reading Manisha came back again asking me. I said.
IF ANYONE HAD AFFAIR OR INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, WILL THEY TELL SOMEONE….?
As LadyX told me who were her close friends, that shows there was nothing serious, they were just casual friends.
Now its upto her to undo what she has done.
My only mistake was give away one name and only LadyX knows why i gave.
i know i betrayed her TRUST.
Judge her by her past, because i am not belong to her Future.
I am writing this, not because i made a mistake, or she or anyone known/related to this will read but because i want tell what had really happened and its upto them to decide. kyonki Zindgi na milegi Dubara
My Message to LadyX: If i have done anything wrong to hurt you, I AM EXTREMELY SORRY; You are most innocent and beautiful at heart girl i ever seen, I know you will not forgive me and talk to me again. but whatever i promised to you, i will keep my word at any COST, and the Secret you shared, i will take it to my GRAVE. I always wish you BRIGHT FUTURE and live happily and if you need me, I WILL BE THERE FOR YOU.
You cannot make Someone to Love you, All you can do is be Someone who can be Loved