The consequences of filing a FALSE DOWRY CASE

The consequences of filing a FALSE DOWRY CASE on the MAN, his friends and families. If for a while we assume that the law is not misused, then also this serves a very lesser purpose as conviction under this law is very difficult, for it needs to be proved the said HARASSMENT for the UNLAWFUL DEMAND was of such nature that it was of danger to the life and limb of the complainant or that it drove the complainant to suicide to the satisfaction of the court beyond reasonable doubt. So we have terms like “satisfaction of the court” and “beyond reasonable doubt” which are highly contentious and interpretation dependent and also difficult to PROVE, DISPROVE or term the accusations and allegations as NOT PROVED.Hence even if the case is true, justice is hard to be delivered. And the case being true, it is the girl here who has been harassed and yet the chances of she getting justice will be very meek. And for a false case, there is no question of imparting justice to the girl as no harassment as alleged has ever taken place and real justice should be meted out to the boy’s family which never happens in a great country like India which assumes that all daughters-in-law are true to the core and all in-laws of complaining and cribbing girls have never uttered a word of truth in their whole life. As has been repeatedly highlighted that filing a false case is gross misuse of IPC 498A and we have also seen even if the case is true, justice is far to be sought.

The retrospective effects of such a case are far reaching and case based. Firstly it is a lifetime blow to the husband, a stab in the back from someone as close to heart as SPOUSE, LIFE PARTNER. Hence the moral and emotional setback is always there. To add to it, the stereotypic and orthodox mindset of the society that a MAN must have done something TERRIBLY BAD to deserve this kind of treatment. This is a result of age long hypnotization and mass brain wash by the feminists to lead into the whole world believing that women are VICTIMS for no fault of theirs and men are PERPETRATORS of violence without rhyme and reason. With such a one – sided ubiquitously stereotypic mentality prevailing world over and especially within and amongst the legislative and executive machinery, it becomes almost next to impossible for the MAN to prove his innocence, in spite of the fact that he possesses evidences to support his claim otherwise. Such an atmosphere can have wide and varied effects. We shall study those under two categories.

Men who have not yet fathered their offspring: –

For these men, the story is relatively simpler since they do not have the emotional kickback of a child. Also the fact that they have been saved from fathering a new born from a devilish woman gives much solace to them which can transform into the much needed courage to ensue the ever – impending fight. But depending on individuality and circumstances, these FALSE CASES can either kill the manhood or give it a push. Moreover men falsely implicated in such cases seem to lose faith in the institution of marriage completely, especially if the marriage is less than a year old before the case is filed. Such euphoria in the society can lead to severe and irrevocable deterioration of the trust and faith on marriage, the institution which has been the foundation of family life since time immemorial. It is not only those men who are themselves directly involved in such cases but also other unmarried men around such men like their younger brothers, first cousins and close friends who watch the MAN go through the abuse, tend to loose the confidence on MARRIAGE, and refrain from tying the knot. They tend to develop a sense of insecurity getting married as they see rendering themselves liable to be made easy scapegoats of this LEGAL TERRORISM. Moreover they don’t really need to get married to be embroiled in the abuse, as any of their brother’s or cousin’s or for that matter any friends’ wife can also drag them into a false case saying these men were hand in gloves with her husband in ‘torturing her for dowry’.

This view holding true for men who resolve to fight the misuse, we will now see the effects of such a false case on the MAN who gives in to the misuse and either accepts the DEMANDS of the girl or settles for money. Such men not only loose their self-esteem and sense of manhood, leading the life of a henpecked husband but also carry the self-remorse and guilt of setting a bad example and contributing to the spread of misuse indirectly. Whereas the blame for such a conduct on part of the MAN cannot be directly attributed to him as has been already iterated that – “in majority of the cases, the metamorphosis of a happily married man to a legal fighter dies prematurely and the matter ends with a monetary compromise” – the reasons for the death of the metamorphosis is another big topic over which volumes of analysis can be represented. For now we look into the effects of the death of the metamorphosis. And such a man who has conceded to the demands, and has not yet fathered an offspring, when actually does so, cannot set an example of a brave MAN and the offspring shall grow up to see a henpecked man and will carry the traits as such. If she is a girl, she will expect her prospective husband also to be such and if he is a boy, he will realize this as a way of life. So we see a wrong trend being set in the society where giving in to the wife’s illogical demands is considered LIBERATION of WOMEN and not doing so results in her HARASSMENT for which we have the law called IPC 498A, and thus a vicious circle is created wherein the misuse self-feeds itself and grows to be a self-nourished monster devouring the demographics and essences of a sane and awake society.

Another ill-effect of such a false case is the wreckage and deterioration of the intellectual property of the country. It has been observed as a norm that these cases are filed to extort money from high earning people in the corporate world especially the software industry which consists of people having an elevated and sharpened intellect and a relatively higher IQ. Also such cases are filed within 5 years of marriage which means that the MAN is either in his late twenties or early thirties which is a very critical juncture of his career. Embroiling young people for an average of 5 – 7 years in such false cases, where conviction can lead to complete ruin of an illustrious career, can be a dealing and yielding blow to the intellectual property, as the man will spend his time, money and energy towards saving his skin from a stereotypically biased system which has refused to move ahead with times. The investments, read time, money and energy, that the man would have otherwise spent on more useful means is now being forced to be wasted to salvage oneself from an effort to ruin the life of the man in particular and society in general.

These were some of the effects and consequences that a false case can have on the people around and the actual victim, the MAN involved in it. Though they cater in general to men whether fathers or not, we will now proceed to look into the same for fathers in particular.

Men who have fathered their offspring: –

The battle is tougher for these people. For, in addition to fight against the legal system and prove themselves innocent for an offense they did not commit, they also need to muster courage to fight against one more thing, the natural emotion of fatherhood as these unfortunate men are deprived of the time they deserve with their children not only by their vindictive wives but also by the judicial system. Long live the Indian Judicial System, which still believes that only mothers can take better care of children and also force the fathers to stay away from their offspring. The judiciary neither believes in shared and joint parenting nor contesting the case on merits. And the brunt of the fallacy is borne by those fathers who not only carry the false sense of guilt of a crime NOT committed, but also have to kill their fatherhood for feeding a marriage devouring monster called the FALSE DOWRY CASE.

There have been umpteen number of instances wherein the fathers are not only blackmailed in the name of their children but also are forced to compromise for the well-being of the child and in spite of the compromise being undertaken, the men are deprived of their child’s love. And in such cases it is not only the men who suffer, innocent silent sufferer’s cries go unheard who are not only unaware of the system, but also suffer at the hands of a vindictive woman who uses the child as a bargain tool to get her illegal way out legally. And the saddest part of the whole bitter truth is that the whole drama is passed off in the legislative atmosphere as WOMEN LIBERATION and EMPOWERMENT OF THE WEAKER SEX.

Sometimes MEN are just threatened of false cases to be lodged against them in case they make an attempt to meet their children. The Indian Penal Code has provided for visitation rights to Men to meet their children, who are separated from their spouses, but it is a long legal battle for the men before they get visitation rights which is again just for a couple of hours on weekends and that too mostly in the court premises where the MEN are not even allowed to bring anything for their children. If they make an attempt to increase meeting hours of visitation they are again threatened with false cases. All this is a toll on the man already but these women and the system fail to notice and understand that how a child who is deprived of the parental love, that he / she not only deserves but also needs very much for a normal upbringing, develops deep and irrevocable mental scars in his / her early days which are lifelong and play major role in the development of the child’s personality and behavioral pattern.

It is not the only bitter fact that the child and the father are not allowed to meet, the time the child is with the mother, she brainwashes the child against the father. There have been cases where the child does not even recognize their own father and has designated them as UNCLES. The child will grow with a falsely imbibed and viciously superimposed sense of hatred and non – belonging towards his / her father and day the child becomes a father, in case the child is a male, will be non – responsive and indifferent towards his children for he as a child was only shown that a MAN is indifferent towards his children. He was never shown the suffering his FATHER went through in staying separate from his own prodigy for no fault on his part except for the fact that he was a responsible, loving and caring man.

These are just some of the consequences of a false case on the child, the MAN and his friends and relatives. There are many far – reaching consequences of such cases which will affect the social, familial, and the economic health of the Indian society in general and individuals in particular. All those who are right now patronizing this misuse and allowing it to spread in order to realize their ulterior motives of power hunger and political urge need to understand that they are slowly digging their own grave and there shall befall a day in their lives when there won’t be a single soul to cremate their rotten bodies. All those who are undergoing the misuse being its victims and are standing up to fight it shall turn out to be better human beings, who could turn an obstacle in their lives into an opportunity.
>> Virag <<

8 thoughts on “The consequences of filing a FALSE DOWRY CASE

  1. Rather thought provoking. The Indian male who is sex-starved during adolescence loses his mind when sex is dangled before him. He therefore will not heed any other male’s advice (how so ever sound it may be) until and unless something bad eventually happens to them.

  2. Dear Rudy, Thats a extensively great research you have done on this topic. Thats a very good article. and You have the art to express great in words. When I saw the title of the article I thought it(consequences) must be for women, but nothing much mentioned for them. I would like to see an article on the same grounds as to what happens to women who file false 498a. In most of the cases, women just file 498a suggested by some relative not knowing what the consequences can be if the man fights back. Please do project that angle as well, and if a women know what can be the consequences of false 498a, women will fear to file false cases. And if u stop atleast one woman for doing that, you will feel happy. Won’t you?

  3. This is a good article.
    1. But main question is how a man can make himself safe and his parents from this false situation ?
    2. What should be done by a man if his wife is threatening him for false dowry case ?
    3.Can lodging a FIR against his wife will safe him for false dowry case ?
    4. What is the option for newly wedded man who’s wife is demanding to separate from his parents and demanding his shares in his father’s property.

    5. How to make safe a man’s property from being snatched by a false dowry case ?

    6. Is there any legal organisation exist in India for helping men for such a cases ?

  4. hi crusader,

    i have been badgered and beleaguered with this false dowry case. I placed so much of an affection towards marraige and expected it to click. i guess i was a bit unlucky that it has not and i am stuck with this case which all started with this false dowry case just because this female was stubborn, unrelenting and obstinate to have her way. My case , its so confusing because, she has not been vociferous on her stubbornness too. confusing or maybe i stay confused.
    I read ur article and you have me thinking positive cos i am not succumbing to the girls money demands. Practically what happens in this case, i hope to wait and see and hopefully will write a vote of thanks for your article since u got me thinking and a few minutes of smiles……:)

  5. sir

    plz mail me same question whih asking mr. rakesh

    1. But main question is how a man can make himself safe and his parents from this false situation ?
    2. What should be done by a man if his wife is threatening him for false dowry case ?
    3.Can lodging a FIR against his wife will safe him for false dowry case ?
    4. What is the option for newly wedded man who’s wife is demanding to separate from his parents and demanding his shares in his father’s property.

    5. How to make safe a man’s property from being snatched by a false dowry case ?

    6. Is there any legal organisation exist in India for helping men for such a cases ?

  6. 1. But main question is how a man can make himself safe and his parents from this false situation ?2. What should be done by a man if his wife is threatening him for false dowry case ?3.Can lodging a FIR against his wife will safe him for false dowry case ?4. What is the option for newly wedded man who’s wife is demanding to separate from his parents and demanding his shares in his father’s property.5. How to make safe a man’s property from being snatched by a false dowry case ?6. Is there any legal organisation exist in India for helping men for such a cases ?

  7. I also need answers for the same questions.
    Could you please mail be your replies for these questions?
    1. But main question is how a man can make himself safe and his parents from this false situation ?
    2. What should be done by a man if his wife is threatening him for false dowry case ?
    3.Can lodging a FIR against his wife will safe him for false dowry case ?
    4. What is the option for newly wedded man who’s wife is demanding to separate from his parents and demanding his shares in his father’s property.

    5. How to make safe a man’s property from being snatched by a false dowry case ?

    6. Is there any legal organisation exist in India for helping men for such a cases ?

    //Please Post it here http://forum.mynation.net –eDitor

  8. @Rakesh, rajeshwaran, DEEPAK CHAWLA, amit saxena ek baat jana lo bhai log
    Jahan Ch#t wahan Ch#ttt
    Jhan L#nd wand dand…..

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