Thirty percent of married Indian women surveyed by the The Times of India admitted to having affairs and saw nothing wrong with it. As per the New York Times, at least ten percent of the children awaiting organ/marrow transplantation do not have an HLA match with their father (therefore he is not the real father) and this extends across all racial/ethnic groups. As per a British newspaper survey, women see nothing wrong in sleeping with their bosses just to get a promotion. Some girls from middle-class families start sleeping around in an attempt to trap a boy from a rich family. Parents are always on the look-out for a rich husband for their daughters and knowingly overlook his bad habits. Women today want their husbands to be subservient to them. It used to come to that eventually in the old days. Some women find it very easy to emotionally blackmail their spouses and have the ability to turn the children against the father very easily.
There is a saying that “the smart criminals never get caught“. Women are generally smarter (more cunning/wily) then men and they are more likely to get away with crimes. Even if caught, they can always turn on the tears/create a sob story and make most people feel sorry for them. A survey by the New York Times showed that whereas a judge would be very lenient and let a woman off (even a repeat offender) with a warning, for the same crime he would simply jail a man. Even the judge knows that if he finds against the woman, he will be picketed by the support groups and when he gets home, he will have to answer to his wife who rules the roost (and some of the support group members are in her kitty party). This gender bias has been going on for centuries.
Just think of the “shotgun-weddings” where the man was forced to marry the woman because she was pregnant. A percentage of women have for years, made false accusations of rape, harassment and dowry because they knew that they could get away with it because almost 100 percent of the men and 50 percent of the women will believe them. If the law makes it easy for people to get away with anything, they will obviously take advantage of such a law, especially when they know that even if the truth were to come out, they would not be penalised. By abusing the current laws that were designed to protect poor needy women, some so-called educated women (whose families have political/legal connections) want nothing less than sole custody of the children, extra child support, alimony, all the gifts given during the marriage, their families part of the wedding expenses, and to put their ex- husband plus his family in jail leaving them with nothing but the clothes on their back.
If some of the support groups were to be believed, then all men are bad and the men deserve it even if they are innocent. There is no doubt that a percentage of men have been doing wrong for centuries but that is not to say that the women have been entirely innocent themselves. I am sure that there are at least as many good men in this world as there are bad women. Would it not be a much better world if support groups were not politically motivated or trying to exact revenge for some perceived insult and worked towards undoing wrongs without any gender bias? Therefore, to stop dowry and the false dowry accusations, all Indian men need to insist on pre-nuptial agreements where everything gifted during the marriage by either side gets listed (such that each partner can then decide whether to take back at the time of divorce) and duly signed by both the parties, the police should not be allowed to file a case in the absence of such a document, penalize the dowry seeker and giver too. Obviously we need to expose and prosecute the people making false accusations (and this would include the lawyers, policemen, support groups and anybody else who aids and abets).