I am not saying this 498A is a blessing for me, but i am sure it is for her.
She wanted FREEDOM, she got it. she just wanted, no one should question her where she goes, or what she do.
Moral of the Story, this 498A is easy way out for todays women. As per my knowledge none of the 498a cases solved Marital problems, than getting Divorce, Still NCW / WCD strongly support this law, IPC 498A.
No husband or his Family will take back. Once they are arrested under 498A, with a false complaint. Even Law forced them to
Take back; her rest of the life will be miserable at husband home. So women should think, before going to Police Station.
With Force you can`t win Family.
Someone rightly said “Aurath ka akkal, gutneka niche”
Other than this, if any child involved in this, then their life also turn miserable, they will be raised by single parents or
No Parent at all, as per in my case.
I can call these following lines are BLESSINGS OF 498A.
Glenn, 10 year old my son is raised by her old parents, and he has no one to talk or consult, when he wanted to know something.
As a Boy I know, what thoughts are coming in young child mind.
No Brother Sister to play around, no parents when you feel sad.
For me, I was raised mostly by mother, but loved and adore my Father more than my Mother.
Glenn is skinniest boy in his class, If anyone see him, they can think, maybe he is getting, Even one meal or not.
For breakfast he is getting biscuits from nearby shop, he hardly seen any breakfast prepared at home, by his Grandmother, a Old black buffalo, but she boasts herself with everyone, that she is sending 10,000 Rupees for child care.
If they spent that 10,000 on him then, he would have been, well built boy, but he look like Orphan.
To study and do lessons, he sits on door steps; he is using Steps as chair and table.
He keep his School bag and other things in small side room, where everything is dumped, we have bigger Bathroom than that.
His Head is shaved once in Four months, so hair should not grown fast, so they can save money on his Hair cut.
He has only one pair of School uniform.
If his Shoes are torn, he will not get new one, he has to manage whole year with that.
No one is there to cut his Nails, Luckily Teacher check and remind him to ask someone to cut it, once in 15 days.
May be he is taking bath himself, as his grandmother; Black old buffalo has difficulties moving her ass to bath room.
There are many such things, if I write more….
But, what he has done to deserve this…