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Her Lost letters to her ClassMate…!

— Dia?? ??nita D?a [dsouza_**] wrote:

Dear Brother,

Hope you remember me, how are you and your family, It is awful to ask this; still I hope you know my situation.
I was surprised when my husband Rudolph, mention your name, And all about you.
He claim he know you very well and he met You, and you told all about us. Is that true ?
If so what did you told About my past.
Did you mention anyone else name?
Do you know Where he is now.? Who else knew about this situation.
If you know Anyone else may told about this to him, then please give me their Email id or ask them.

Thank you.
Your sister
<< END of 1st Letter >>

Subject: UR Brother. 🙂
From: “??diraj rao” <?]
Date: Mon, June 17, 2002 2:45 pm

Hallo Sister
Yup I remember u very well. I am fine over her in B’lore.
What about u ?
Wher r u now?
Who gave u my e- mail id?
Dia?? , I have not met ur husband till now.But came to about you both through my friend who is there in Abu-

Dhabi.His name is canute mathias. I felt very sad when i heard about u and rudolph.Ur husband mailed me once seeking my

help to get in touch with u.
I tried it once but could not succeeded.Being your brother i tried my best to bring u both together.And i never told

anything to him about our past. What is there to tell him, we r just a good friends. Tell me about yourself, where r u now?

I really surprised when i saw ur mail.Thanks for remembering me after a long time.My friend is there in mumbai doing his

Thats it for now, see u later

<< END >>

2nd Letter

— Dia?? ??nita D?a [dsouza_**] wrote:
hi, brother

Thank you for your mail,
i got your mail id from Rudolph, he only told me to ask you. so i wanted to confirm, what he claim is true or not.

now i`m confussed who might have given him all the information. if you are not told anything, who else. other than we four no one else knows about it all.
now i wanted to ask naveen and shiny, if you have thier email or address or phone number please give me.
may be shiny told him, he may black mail her with your name, he is very clever to do all these stuff.
or if you know anyone else might have told him please tell me.

thank you
waiting for your letter


??nita D`Sa
(i`m not D`Souza any more)

<< END >>


Date: Tue, 2 Jul 2002 05:39:53 -0700 (PDT)
From: “??diraj rao” <?]
Reply-To: “??diraj rao” <?]
To: []
Subject: Re: hi

Hello Dia??,
I am fine here. Hope for the same with u.

What is this Dia?? ?
I am totally confused. What is wrong with u?
Where r u now? And i don’t have any contact no. of both naveen and shiny.

Tell me in detail what exactly had happened.Bye,


<< END >>

Her 3rd Letter

— Dia?? ??nita D?a [dsouza_**] wrote:

Thank you for the mail,
Now I am in Dubai, working. It was not my choice, but my destiny brought me here.
My silly college mistake ruined my life.
Now Rudolph Issued divorce notice. He tells, someone from our group may be our classmate, told something about me.
I do not who was that;
I just want to figure out.

Thats why I asked others contact numbers. Who is this canute..? You told last time. What he know about me.

Now I can’t make him understand what was the truth.

Because my parents and sisters did wrong things to him. My cousin sisters forced me to file false complaint of dowry harassment, and he was got arrested, case is still going on.
Now if I want to talk to him also my parents are not allowing me to talk to him.

I do not know what to do.

see you

<< END >>

His Last Mail

Hi Dia??,
I am fine here.
Felt very sad when i saw your mail.Now i will try my best to bring you both together.But bfore that i want to know from your side, R U interested in going back to him? If yes plse do let me know.
Dia?? i really don’t know who did that silly thing.
Whoever it may be, God will punish him.

Now before signing that divorce letter, let me know what is your wish. U still loves your husband na?

If yes, Kaam hogaya samjo.Don’t worry everything will be allright.

Happy to know that u r working in Dubai.

If trying my luck to visit dubai since long time.One of my best friend is there in Dubai (Ashok & Sunitha) Reply me immedietly.



3 thoughts on “Her Lost letters to her ClassMate…!

  1. I too read almost the whole blog ! My question is, what bullshit is going on in our country ? In spite of repeated appeals to the President of India, the Highest person in the country, and replies from him, so many activists supporting him, media with him, stil he is not got justice ! Really these people are making a big joke of our entire country !

    I really am proud of Rudolph ! I guess only precious people like him are subject to acid tests like these by God to prove how much Faith they have in Him !

    I hope he gets at least his son back and then he dos not have to care about his wife….

    Also, I saw thta in the beginning he had mentioned that she usd to get herself forcibly beaten , but in the chat with VadiRaj, he said that he used to beat her when she was forcing any object into his hand to beat him, I guess that does not make any sense….I mean I would have done the same thing as he did probably, but, I guess there is a minor catch there, any way that does not matter at al, compard to what all he had to suffer ! If I had been in his place, I would have chosen the same path her parents chose, would have had her family murdered, abused the law like they did, and dragged the case for years ! I am not a Gandhi ! Im a Rang De Basanti !

    Sometimes fighting the right way never pays, especially in the deep shit we are surviving in !

  2. Rudolf story is really pathetic one. I read it (almost 80%) on tht day itself but couldn’t reply back…

    Its like the law of nature tht a simple person get a partner with contrasting qualities…
    The simple person has to go thrgh hell…

    N needless to say tht our judicial system is bullshit….
    Harassing common people is just another thng for them…

    Y does Rudolf still loves her?
    But I must say Rudolf has lots of patience n determination (waiting for justice for more thn 7yrs is not a joke; he has been harassed, abused, lost his job n wht not ; and he took it all silently)…

    Wht we hv in our fate we don’t know…

    But I’m sure for myself – I’m not Rudolf ; I’m not Gandhi..


  3. Rudolph,

    I admire your integrity & determination to pursue justice. What you are attempting is no less than what Gandhi was doing in South Africa as a fledeling lawer – utterly truthful to himself & his fellow human beings.

    Few other individuals have challenged the draconian Indian politico legal system during the last few decades & succeeded in speaking truth to power. The name escapes me – but who was the excise officer who had to fight with all of the Indian Customs authorities for nearly a decade, when he heroically stalled & fought with a band of smugglers, barely armed with one assistant (in the middle of the night)? Then there was a man who single handedly fought to bring the RTI (“right to information”) act to the Indian parliament. Then there is the mother of Nitish Kataria, the mother of the youngster slain for the fault of loving a girl from a politically powerful family.

    You are in league with them & will continue to inspire all those who come in contact with you.

    My prayer and heart are with you. Your fistful of salt will embellish the tomes of political history of India.

    With sincere regards,

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