You may say I never tried to solve this Problem?
Make her understand?
to Save my Marriage, my Sacrament.?
Matter of fact I tried in Vain, solve this problem, convince her and Save my sacrament;
I took 3 Priest, to her home and talk to her Parents, but they refused to talk instead they were very much interested in beating me.
I convinced our Vasai neighbor Tawde Family; Bhabi the only women she was talking; and begged them to call her and make her understand. When Bhabi called her sisters; they came to their home and played only one tune;
Give us guarantee of our sister life; they were telling like, I was coming home drunk and beating her.
Bhabi asked them, what guarantee they wanted ? when there was no problem from my side and they themselves charged me with false complaint and harassing.
They had NO comments for that. I agreed, to take her back even she filed false complaint and harassing, just to save my marriage and risking my life.
she was threatening me, she will stab her self and tell police that I stabbed her.
So there was no guarantee for my life, as our Indian law and police listen to women only, even there are false complaint and false Rape charges. Police and Authority think all men are villains and al women are victims of Domestic violence.
As I can say not all women are victims, they are villains too;
Then I gave written letter to Bhabi; in case if she finds her, to give it to her. Later Bhabi called my wife and handed over that letter to her. But there was reply for that letter.
I wrote many letters to her Family and Friends; wrote them, what was the actual reason for this problem and breakup; but no one was ready to listen the truth.
I wrote to her Uncle who was Priest; and her God Father
I wrote to her Parish Priest;
I wrote to her uncles sister who was familiar with us.
I called many times her close friend Mary who was working with her, in Bombay, later she also turned hostile.
I sent SMS to her cousin Brother who was in Dubai;
I called her Cousin Brother wife and she told if I call again she will note my number and report it to Dubai Police.
I troubled Vasai Priest to call her many times, and he called her not less than 50 times in 4 months.
Why ? Just to save my marriage.
I told My Vasai neighbor if they find her in Vasai, convince her; but they said.?
Woman will not run away just like that, there should be someone.
They were furious;
Kya kamee tha usko, is ghar mai;
Aap ko tho, kuch buri aadath nahi hai;
Achcha kaam hai, ghar hai aur sab kuch hai;
Dusra koi hotha, thumar pair dhoke pani peetha.
Gai hai jane do tume tho hazaar achchi ladkiya milengi.
These are their actualwords, when I told them and they found out about us and this Tragedy.