You may think husband watching XXX movies wrong, but men do not think so, they enjoy watching it as you women watch soap opera on ZEE/sony and enjoy.
I can say, those x Cds are better than those love stories / saan bahu fights. Most of these Hindi TV serials shows, married women having extra marital Affair , husband found out wife Pre marital affair, or Husband is having Affair in office.bla bla.
I know many wives enjoy watching these X CDs along with husband, and doing something in it for mutual satisfaction. thats why KAMASUTRA was written, thats oldest sex manual as per my knowledge, thats from India, so acting like sati savitri will not work in marriage.
In India most of the marriges are ends because of SEX problems, only next to mutual understanding.