I am so happy that you got what you were looking for. See how your patients paid off?
Trust me, he cares for you. If not, he would not have said “not to discuss any matter of our personal to any one nor his or my family” and he wants to put everything behind lead a happy life with you. But just pay little attention and handle people, situtation and relations with extra caution. I am sure, you would be happy with the results.
Honestly speeking, I am very happy to see an update from you with positive outcome.
I wish you good luck and 10 years or 15 years for now when you have kids around you with growing responsiblities and unconditional love towards each other, all that has happened in the past looks very small and you will be glad that you were able to put everything behind you.
My best wishes.