Hey No 1 anup.
Why are you trying to adjust to this bi### in the first place ? Your first mistake was to go and stay separately with her after she already had you and your brother arrested. You already have bail in the Sec.498A case so the worst is already over. Tell her to go to hell and file for divorce. You anyway have to fight the Sec.498A chargesheet as and when it is filed. So fight it. But at the same time tell her to go to hell and file for divorce on the basis of cruelty. Filing criminal case against you and having you arrested is cruelty and no judge will expect you to patch up with her.