I have gone through your matter, you have left your matrimonial house without permission of your husband, its first mistake, after that you have prosecuted your husband u/s498 (a), it’s 2nd mistake, because of this enmity is created & now you are expecting to solve the matter easily. If you were willing for your carrier why you have married & spoiled life of others. If such type of attitude is there, no easy way is there. So both of you forgive to each other. Then only there will be amicable settlement . Try your leaval best.
Adv . Ramchandra,