How does one sympathize with you ? We are here in this group, because we face what you are facing for years without anyone’s sympathy or pity. We are arrested, looted and blackmailed, because we happen to be decent men. You have met your match in your husband and you still want money.
We men give money in every case, even where it is not deserved and nobody wants to listen to our depressions and withdrawal from society symptoms. Unlike you, we can’t sit in a room and expect somebody to bear our expenses, ask for alimony because our marriages have not worked out. We have to go out to work and somehow take care of ourselves and our families.
So get real, my dear and go out and get a job. Maybe you would be more deserving of sympathy for a bad marriage if you do so. And you may not need your husband’s money also, thus saving you a bunch of hassles.