All Fingers of your hand are not same; so you will get different comments from different people.
As there are bitter women, you will find same kind of men too, and they comment as per thier experience.
If you ask same question in some women forum, they will say;
Forget your husband and past, go out find someone and Flirt,even if you are not legaly divorced. thats how women Advice, and you know how we Advice.
Take whichever you likes it.