If you don’t want listen others , means you don’t hv manner. If you are saying somthing , you should listen and understand his point also. Your parents spent 20 lacs and you want back. Tell me where is the money which your husband’s spent on your marriage. Who will return to them ? you ? Marraige expanse your parent and his parent spent for public not for your husband or not for you. Why your parent spent 20 lacs ? who told them for it?
Any Demand was there ? if no , How can you ask for return marraige expanse. If yes , Why you agree for marriage with him (Greedy people ). If it was dowry , Why you and your parent agrred for Giving dowry ? why not you or your parent complaint in police that time ? This is the only matter of IGO. Sometime couples IGO not match and Marriage fail . Then Girls take reveange . Wht u think about ur husband ? he is ATM machine for you ? Y not you are going to forget him and live and let him live also. If you are educated girl why not you do somthing for socity (But you are going to spoil also).