When her Father and Brothers themself upset with her that means somehting wrong with her, If husband is not coming then why she is not going to him…?
May be she filled ears of her Daughter so she started to hate Father and his family. when her own Father and Brothers do not like her.
She has equal rights in Fathers Property,she can move a petition in court to get equal share. she they harass her she can file Domestic violence on her Brothers too.
Try to findout why her husband is acting like that, if he want divorce go for mutual without fighting long legal battle.maintenance will be decided by court for her and child.
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