about husband responsibilities; if she cook and clean and maintain his house and meet his physical needs at least 2/3 times a week for 2/3 years of marriage, if she is not working women and support her husband financially.
then she should get good treatment from her husband. other than paying her bills / buying cloths / taking her out /spending some quality time with wife and kids / buy some gold on occassion or once a year(depends) and some money as pocket money
There should not be IFin marriage,
IFyou do this to me, i`ll do that…..bla bla
it should be mutual,without expecting anything in return but both spouses should know their responsibilities.
Thats my definition of both spouse responsibilities . others may vary.