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I think if you want to legal way, you can file for child custody with all the details of police complaints, suicide threats, you must prove some of these threats and why child interest is being compromised when child lives with mother very strongly.
You can do same in your divorce petition as well or file separately for child custody. latter is more effective and faster way.
Then in lower courts you should try to use all arguments that you can make, prove them and also try to get judge influenceded if possible. It is hook or crook game, when it comes to your innoncent child. Don’t hesitate to try anything that works. There is law to protect child interest and there has been decisions in past where father was successfull in getting child custody of less than 5 year childs. but that is just not common. Then citing a recent judgement, ask to to decide the case for child interest in less than 2 months time. If you read SIFF emails, then there is a recent verdict for the same. This is all that you can try and hope for the best.
Physical way works better, as she can not do much in that except using physical way on her side. Get him and then directly go to court applying child custody. Also optionally you may inform local thana that you are going to take custody of your own child. Believe me, no one can accuse a father to kidnap one’s own child. So there is not much she can complaint against that legally. Some countries have inter parental kidnapping laws but not India. However in all this , you first need to be sure for yourself that child interest is best with you and not with mother. Because if he needs mother more than you, then let him be with her. It is your call.