Reply To: kindly help me

You can send her Restitute conjugal rights Notice, asking her to come and join you, as a wife she has no right to deny marital happiness. and she has to answer to court or give divorce to you if she is not interested in you.

You can record her threats and she is not interested in joining you and produce to court that will help you to get Divorce.

You can ask for Child visitation too.