You wrote “child is not a property first of all.for child development and upbringing both parents should live in harmony. he or she needs both parents. there will be normal wear and tear marriage. there should be compromise from both sides especially when there is a child”
and again you say “infant is given back to her with the help of police. and wife gets status quo custody.”
At that time why dont you thought about your own passage “for child development and upbringing both parents should live in harmony….bla bla”
Instead you should have asked the Police/Court before getting Child and kept with you, Even after 5 years of Age, that force Father to spend some quality time everyday with child instead keeping child only with you.