father know very well the child will be taken care and maintained without his support no matter how much hardship a mother has to undergo. this may be only for revenge for filing 498a or some strategy. does he really care about child’s welfare . what will be the end result child may not have the luxurous life as his father. but even if he meets the father will he have the same respect toward his father who is so cruel towards his mother and not even bothered about him and only want to access. he may not know all this as he is just a child. as he grows up he will have his own thought process and reasoning no matter how much mother hides the facts from him for normal upbringing.