Im not sure what dignity you are talking about, you have to ask Indian Common man who has more dignity in society
Married women or Divorced women… and you know the truth.
TRUST will not come by default just because you both married, its build on your sacrfies and deeds towards your partner.
You women expect man to spend on her,buy gold and comfort what you are giving in return…? not even food with Love.
as you wrote correctly, You want him to repent, instead saying i forgive you, coz todays modern Indian woman do not want to forgive,but they wanted to dictate him.
To dominate, control and destroy a man`s finance, mental health, self-esteem and any hope for happiness.
Todays Indian women want to reap where they dont sow. [ taken from : http://mynation.net/gender-equality.pdf