Few questions for u. seems u r educated lady then why ur family has given dowry at the time of marriage? Why u don’t have resisted at that time for giving dowry? If ur husband dances on ur tunes then dowry is ok otherwise it is wrong?
Whether u have brother? Do u expect him to takes cares of ur parents or not? It is not clear u have a kid or not but after being a mother only u will know what pains parents have taken to grow their child.
Look inside yourself then only u will know what is your real problem is and solution is with u only.