Tell it Stridhan or what ever, giving dowry is a crime under law. As u r aware that ur husband has to MAINTAIN u then u must be knowing that u and ur parents have done CRIME in eyes of law.
Second pt. u want financial security for urself and want to share his earnings but will not support him in his duties as son. Lady like u know their rights but not about duties.
I again repeat look inside urself. Whether love giving by u to ur husband is less than that of his parents. Why one person will lean towards one way? it is only when he is not satisfied with u for some reasons best known to u.
My sincere advice if u plan to harass anyone then atleast u will be also face problems. If u attack someone be ready for retaliation