there are also men who give assurances of all the support after marriage. but later overlook. before marriage no one can foretell each members attitude/nature/approach and actual difficulties in adjusting. many of the women do adjust in joint family with support from husband. clear communication between the spouses can solve problems. does that happen always? do you also discuss with her before giving gifts and present. do you treat her as your equal partner.
I am not justifying anybodies negative actions. find out the cause and solution. think as a human being also from other person’s point of view also. may you will find the solution. Distressed woman can never be happy and make anyone happy.visa versa