from sept 2009 till date you are staying with your parents. it is more than 1.5 years and you also approached village elders for solution to the problems. you seem to be working woman. and can live independently. it is clear that inspite of your efforts there is no improvement in your relation with your husband and inlaws. Even if you stay in the house nothing is going to improve with such attitude(inlaws & husband) you do not have any kids to keep you and your husband connected. there is no use of waiting further. please approach NGO & take legal action immediately. you will get back your belonging for sure. fearing that legal action will result in divorce is of no use. even otherwise with the present situation it is no better than divorce. you are lucky you do not have kids and it is better you look out for a life parter worth for you without wasting time.