after marriage girl should forget about basic things like sleep, food, clothes, or a pocket money and get a treatment like servant – were u deprived of all these things? always??were u treated like a servant?
your parents or his parents they should talk about betterment of both (you and your husband) as you are also family now.
Environment for a girl will not be same like your parents house after marriage. you may be darling of your parents but now you are adult and responsible person. you cannot expect the same luxury in your matrimonial home.you can still adjust if your husband really loves you and cares for you. if he is not supportive and does not help in adjusting just talk to him. find out the reason?? is it only for money( as you are working woman) for which he married you??