her actions show that she has revenge attitude as she has filed more than one cases. she is not happy with u and deeply hurt. she will any how not get money as she is not eligible for maintenance. if she has someone else u can easily make out as she will try to avoid physical relation and show no interest towards u. there is something somewhere wrong. is she from poor family? even than such cases are rare.
i too agree not all woman r same and not man r same. you can not generalise.
my husband filed divorce petition without my knowledge and tried to show extra goodneess so that i do not file any cases against him. what dirty games are played by estranged partner with what motives it is difficult to understand. later he said everything is fair in love and war.?