dsouza, are u not concerned about your child health, education & his future? suppose if you had girl child from your second marriage? and how do you plan to get her married when she grows up? what will be your preference while searching groom for her. what if she has marital discord after marriage? how will you try to resolve???
After being a parents yourself how can you just abuse girls parents for your concious decision of marriage. whether it love or arranged is it not your decision also.