most men will say NO to marry a women with strings, unless he has one or he did find suitable girl.
but there are some pathetic men as i wrote in my earlier post. or he has acquired huge sum from previous husband, like Elizabeth tylor
she has legitimate or illegitimate child, father should be responsible only 50% of child maitenance. only after if women prove that she spend all that 50% on child only. if she cannt handle another 50% let her give child to father, he will employ better women for less than 50% and he will take care also.
most women take child, coz they want to claim money, keeping child as a RANSOM.