as rekh is not here(blocked) is no one will argue her point even if dsouza gives his false/true interpretation.
even if there is slightest chance of compromise you make use of it as your union is of long time and 2 kids.
breaking a house is easy but not rebuilding.
as far as I am concerned i had opted for councelling and waited for him to take the first stand and then i filed the cases with all the proof and the compliant was registered only after panchnama and investigation. but now my husband is in anticipatory bail and facing trail. i have no intention of continue he too does not. so no question of compromise.