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07/06/2010 at 8:38 AM #294AnonymousGuest
Please help me wih your valuable suggestions.
My brother got married 6 months back with a middle class,extremely b’ful girl with no brains.Girl is extremely suspicious by nature and is very demanding…to the extent that she doesn’t want her husband to socialise with friends and colleagues.She is verbally abusive too.
Unfortunaely her father is a editor and has some poliical contacts. He keeps threatning my family that if his daughter shows any sign of unhappiness in my family he will file false cases against my family that we have harrased her for dowry etc.She keeps threatning my bro. that she will leave him and ruin his life.In last 6 months she has packed her bags almost 7-9 times and warned my bro. of conciquenses he might have to face. She clearly tells my bro. that she wants him to live his life on her terms.
Ours is a very simple and respectable and upper middle class family. My father is too image concious and that is why he had been trying to compromise with this situation till now.Now my parents are not able to cope up with these kind of every day torutres.
My mother is suffering from multiple health problems and on he top of that she is being tortured by this girl every now and then.Yesterday girl left my place to stay wih her family.
I need help on follwing :
1)What kind of report can my brother make to get an anticipatory bail in case her father files a false FIR against my family
2) CAn my brother make a complaint against her behaviour in terms of mental harrasment.
3) This girl has some kind of phsychological problem I think.As her behaviour is not normal and that a reason why she keeps framing things told to her by any one in family and then she tells a different story o her father so that he can torture us.Please suggest how can we prove that.
An early response will be very helpful.As my family might face a problerm any time now.
08/06/2010 at 3:43 AM #1612AnonymousGuest
Dear friend, this situation is not new in many of the family this happens. So you or your family have no need to disturb. Because of most attachment of your wife of brother with her parents & with their interference in her life such problem is occurred. If your brother is earning, it will be better to separate them for some year is the best solution. Both f them will come to know the real life. They will come to know their responsibilities. If it does not possible, it will be difficult to settle the matter. Complaints will be filed against each other, bail/ant. bail it will go on nothing will be gained to anybody. Hence try to avoid all this. If no way is there & we want to break relations then only legal remedies are proper.
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08/06/2010 at 6:27 AM #1613AnonymousGuest
Dear Mr Kachave,
Thanks for your reply but we will not be able to seperate our brother from family. Our family thought of opting for this solution also but we (including bro) for sure know that she will make his life even more miserable.She has not just abused him verbally , she has done it physically too.She has hit him on face twice in anger.To save himself even my bro. had o raise hand on her and he is too ashamed of it. Unfortunately,my bro. has not gathered any eveidences that can prove him innocent. Neither he believes in doing so.
She has left our place to meet he lawyers and file case against my family. I want to save my innocent family. I do not want them to be behind the bars. Please understand the matter of urgency and suggest us the way out.I know that she is capable of playing any kind of trick because she has told my bro. lot many times that she will ruin our family.She is too cruel and incapable of thinking positive and normal.I am looking for legal remedies only to save my brother and family.
08/06/2010 at 9:44 AM #1614AnonymousGuest
Report it to Police that she left your house. and also report it that she threatened you by filling false case.
For Police whoever 1st reports they are right, and ask police to tell her to take her things if she left anything.
01/07/2010 at 3:48 AM #1615AnonymousGuest
We too have similar problem. My brother resides in USA and he got married last year. His wife was there along with him for 4 months there and she returned to India. While she was there she was abusing my brother very badly. Not only she but her parents, her brother used to call and abuse my brother in US and my parents in India. After that she returned to India and started abusing and threatening my parents that she will file a false case against them. This torture went on for nearly 5 months. After that she extracted Rs.3 Lakhs from my parents. She threatened them that if they wont give she will file a false complaint under 498(A). My parents are over 65 and they got frightened that if she files a false case they may get arrested and so gave her the money. Daily she was calling up my parents used abusive language and finally got money.
After that one fine day in May she left to the US without even informing my brother. It was a shock for all of us. Infact we are worried now how much will she torture my brother mentally. She has invited her sister and her brother to my brother’s house in the US now. God knows how much torture will all of them create for my brother there. He is helpless.
498(A) is being misused very badly.
The boy and his parents if they are really in trouble its very difficult for them to get out of it.
01/07/2010 at 11:18 AM #1616AnonymousGuest
You apply for ant. bail, it is necessary.
05/07/2010 at 4:10 PM #1617AnonymousGuest
Thank you. Tried applying for ant bail but was not granted.
07/07/2010 at 6:30 AM #1618AnonymousGuest
i have a similar case:
The girl harasses the boy from day 1 of the marriage to live with her parents, stating he is gay, womanizer, drunken and suddenly one day leave the boy‘s house only to file a case in police station on dowry harassment and stated later that she did only to threaten him to bend to her wish/demands. Also, puts case on mother in law too. After filing the case, says she wants to live with the boy,who unfortunately undergoing suffering through her erratic temperament , contradictory statement ,and constant nagging, wants divorce .
Now latest she says mother-in-law is to be punished, but let the boy free so that she can live with him and change him for better (?), though she was the one who walked out of the house but boy want divorce to end this ordeal. So, on what merits evidence can the boy win this case for divorce.
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