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You don’t worry. She will improve, try to understand her. Everything will ok. If any legal problem will be there, lawyers are thr.

Keep record of everything you do to her;

Keep all bills

If she has some of your assets / shares/ valuable keep it in your locker without giving her any hint or suspect on your movement.

Find a good Criminal lawyer, in case if she file case on you to get you out on BAIL.

rest assured

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Dear sir thanks for information, I wish to add some more information

She told few times after two years of marriage, during quarrels, that her members will drag my entire family behind bars. Because of non awareness of 498a and DV, I did not act promptly. Now her relatives suspecting me, that I have started taking precautions, thats why she may not reveal any symptoms before filing case.

Actually, I am dragging my relation with her, I never expressed to her, but she expressed that, no benefit living with me, what have you done to me sofar.

she was unhappy with my parents during their stay with us, due to treatment of my father, and cursing him after his death due to health problem. Now also she told, she will never visit my home town, and creates scene when I wish to visit my mother. I started believing she is not made for me, as her relatives being dominant always supports her and inturn currupts her mind during phone calls.

Even after this, I do not wish to separate from kid and wife, I am trying my best, and Due to current good situations she is here with me for nearly one year as being Muslim she could not go alone to her native and no one came to me to pickup her during last one year. she insisted me to board her native bus few times. I never did. If she go there, she will ask me to come there bypassing my mother, and will not stop with that.

Pl suggest me, if she is moving to her parents with my daughter( 2 years) and with or without informing me or informing neighbors in my absence and returning the house-key to them( I am residing in that house for the last 4 years), in what way I have to give FIR , that should be advantageous to me if she planned to file case( she will never show symptoms now)

I do not have any wrong intensions towards her, but to safe gaurd my self, and to teach a lesson to wrong wife, I am sharing my feelings to all the members here. Thanks a lot.

Dear sir.

She frequently counts all the assets, and salary and says call elders settle amount and give divorce, she never gave company when I visit my mother. and she forces me not to go.I am isolated due to this. Even if Iam not interested to give divorce, our attitude and behavior keep on worsening towards each other, I console my self that she will go one day. and cant stop, as her attitude never positive toward me. she curse me every instance of life, she curse the died father still.

How can i show reduced salary, and also how can i to protect house in my native, which is common for my brothers(one married and 2 unmarried and only sister(married) to reduce maintenence to wife.

thanks.

10 days ego, her mother came to my house and my wife left with my son, when I was in my office. when returned home on the same day I have received house key from the house owner, when I entered inside, she took completely her cloths. After this i got written statement from house owner stating that she left in my absence. then I met with Quazi (islamic sharia-person) and reported this. Iis this letter useful anywhere?

Letter and house owner will be very usefull IF you are going Legal Divorce. that shows she left her own and take her things in your absense.

when we went for counseling in her town, police arrested me, my mother, elder brother.

IPC-498-A DPA-3 DPA-4 lodged on us.

fortunately all three got bail. on 14-02-2011.

In FIR, they sate that, they gave money in the form of cash, and also in the form of DD. with the photo copies of DD’s attached. Account Payee is my father.

But these DDs in the name of my father may be genuine, and my father is nomore.

In FIR, they have stated that, they gave dowry . what can be done. pl. suggest.

Dear sir

It is surprising to my self that i am communicating to you all.. like this after getting bail. Even my lawyer himself surprised after getting bail. to Accuse:1 (Husband).

is it possible to check my bank (salary account) locker by my wife side persons or by police by showing the FIR copy .. or by any other means to find any valuable items.

I would like to know in which case police or court can access my bank-locker and how long it takes, because currently iam at different location ?

If my wife side try to communicate with me What I have to demand first?

thanks.

If you have proof of giving money you can file petition to charge then as under IPC 498a,

giving and taking also crime under 498a, so both of you can sit in one jail room.

in maintenance case unless court order no one can access your locker. or salary account.

dear sir,

I suspect that, she is trying to communicate with me through mediators, got missed call also. She even may withdraw 498a unconditionally because of her worst financial security that she has created for her self during 5 years. I am not interested to live with her, If she come back, and stand infront of my house along with my son and few other people, what shell I do. How to complaint immediately,

Can I go for legal separation once she withdraw 498a unconditionally, can I sue her for the sufferings she gave me and my innocent family.

Can I check whether she take back 498a once my FIR number disappears from the website(( http://www.apstatepolice.org/APPW/jsp/csAction.do?method=loadCaseStatusPage) or there any written documentation.

pl. respond.

offence u/s498a is cognizable,non bailable & Non compoundable.You have to move High Court for quashing for FIR. After filing FIR investigation will begin. then trial. the outcome of the same will show if it is geniune case or not. it takes time.

woman files 498a case only when she knows there is no hope of living together. legal separation is well anticipated. do not think that she will not fight cases for her rights. there are many NGOs to help distressed muslim woman. you will be in trouble if you do not pay maintenance to her and your child .

if she communicates through mediators. first understand what she wants to communicate.

if you feel you are not guilty at all and your wife needs to be punished. you can file counter cases. if she is really innocent she will defend herself. Also think about your innocent child’s future.

think before you act so that you do not repent later..

If you are in AP state 498a can be withdrawn but nothing can prevent her for filing fresh cases.

hope the cases remain fresh, haina behena rekhaji

Her family wanted to play when my family send remand for 15 days. This

not happened. Before 498 she didnot financially secured herself. I suspect

Whether willingly or not she may come back and stand infront of my house with my son crying. But now i dont want her. Let her fight for entire life in the court. What complaint i can give to police.

remember you will be also fighting entire life in court.

at the moment you are angry and want to take revenge.

she still can financially secure herself from the maintenance amount/permanent alimony which you have to give.

the innocent child is with her. will you be happy to see your son suffering as well.

if one partner wilfully does not want the other then there will be marital disscord always.

instead why don’t you sit across with both of your family elders and settle the matter once for all.

The cries of the elder members who currept and motivate the mind of wife to opt fake 498a, at least will prevent other members of her family and my other family members not to opt such wrong path, as we know most of the cases are fake, biased and once opted there is no point of return.

we see every day many tragedies and endings related to others and ignore instantly because that is not related to our family, similarly once she is not mine, the same thing I have to adapt. There is nothing to feel about that because we are with Indian citizenship.

ok..

I am not sure, whether Iam on safer side or not, at least I know that law is double sided sword, we can utilize it the way we want.

can any one pl.. cite details relevant to second marriage during 489a: related to Muslims.

sincerely

thanks.

better to marry after clearing legal disabilities. it won’t be fair on the other woman you want to marry.

I hope we dont waste precious time taking sentiments here.

We need to equip ourselves with loopholes in our

Biased, indefinite time consuming law system.