I seen, out of my 6000 Plus members real life stories of 498a Legal Terrorism; only 2 women are back with husband and all others marriages ended with either Divorce or separated making children fatherless, Very few found other man or managed to seduce someone to get marry, but many men who are divorced got married again; thanks to NCW and WCD and the blessings of Indian Government.
When women file false 498a and see husband behind bars and his old aged parents running post to pillar to get bail, she feel Top of the world and conquered whole world. what is use winning whole world and losing sacred Institute of Marriage and making children Fatherless.
In my case, my beloved EX runaway with my gold, not only i gave it to her but my gold chains and rings along with many gold chains given by my family members to our son. It was worth 2/3 lakhs 10 years ago today it may value 5 times more. but im sure she cann`t sell it and digest nor even erase it from her memory coz she not only lost her marriage and made our son fatherless but broke 2 commandments out of 10.
1) Do not steel. [ You shall not steal – 8th commandment ]
2) Do not tell lies [ You shall not bear false witness – 9th commandment ]
Coz she filed false case on me, telling i was beating her for dowry. She will answer this on her Judgment Day
What is the use ? she may felt victories just like other legal terrorist for few days, but soon she faced real world. Today she is working in burning sun of middle east far away from family and meet son once in a year who is in India, and myself happily married.
Moral of the story is 498a or DV is not answer for any marital problem, Indian women is dumb enough to know this, in this struggle its women the loser not men. if anyone is gaining in fight between husband and wife then its NCW / WCD. they want more and more 498A and DV cases filled, they are not bothered to solve any marital Problem. if more cases filled the more Government grant they will get.
It is indeed good to know that you have managed to make a happy life for yourself again. But what about your son. Is he with you ? Do you see him often ? Is he happy ? How old is he ?
I agree with you that women who launch Sec.498A cases against their husbands rarely if ever settle down again. It would be almost impossible to find a man to get married again. After all who would want to invite trouble into his life, knowing the past history of such a woman. All they manage to do is to ruin their children’s lives.
Today legal archives have to reply the innocent question of a husband when he was put behind the bar under allegation 498A–WHY I AM HERE? MAY I REUNITE WITH WHOM?
I will say only 5 points please read and think about them at more depth you will definitely realize.
1. “A family means understanding and belief on each other.”
One cannot make it exist by using force or law or threatening.
2. Now come to the Act 498A. .. Basically it is not desigened/made to enrich family instead it assure the breakage of it.
3. Now you think of who has made it.?. Definitely we as the foolish people of India.
Reason: People who are not in a position to think impartially, those who do not have vision or prediction in which ways the designed law will be mis used, are allowed to make. And we are the people who elected them.
4. Today the world or India is … all the people at highest position as well as educated people also bowing infront of feminists. This is NOT equality..
It is in equality of law.
5. Keep your hand on heart and say how many of us(both males and females) don’t have soft corner towards females. Even females knows it , and they exploits it. It is just nature.. who are nurturing it … it is just WE.
“Sad part to males is .. Both MALEs and FEMALEs support only FEMALE”
Readers Please think WHY SO?
GOOD ONE.
AS you wrote a Girl Name, i assume you are a Women.
May be you are sister / in law who were faced harassment from other women, because of women centric laws and World support for Feminists.
NCW/WCD want more and more cases to be filled because on that they are getting more funds and grants. and none of these women who file case are benifited than getting divorce.
and Women empowered by NCW/WCD file false cases and those who realy harassed women face difficulties to file real case, because more false cases now all think all file false case only.
so moral of the Story is Women is loser.
so you have to spread this word, to counter WCD/NCW, if you are Women.
fail to understand
why does she say to her new hubby that she has a history of filing 498A to her ex ?