No matter with whom the child is, Child will be always a looser,for the the child has not done any wrong so why should the child decide to be with a father or mother.
I am sure if one asks oneself a question at our age if you have to decide between your mother or father ?
who shall you choose ?. I could not answer this question
why is it not possible not to drag the child into this controversy and use a child as a pawn by the law and ourselves.As i`m fighting for my Child custody, but his mother want to take him as a shield in her divorce and blackmail in Future,not because she loves my son. in my mother in laws own words, “As long as my son with them, they can make me dance,and bring me on my knees”.
why cant we decide what is in the best intrest of the child.Mostly the law decided in favour of mother in india,and to prolong this messy fight may traumatize the child more, as a father would you be able to see all this ,when your child suffers.
I decided against it, not because i was nto capable to take care of child,but because i loved him.
I decided to leave him with her mother,as it is Indian laws favor women, Even she is a prostitute and indian fathers do not have any rights over his Children.
I never tried to get away with my responsiblities, when my son was with me, I used to getup not less than 3 times at night to chnage his daipers, wet cloths, when his mother was in deep sleep, snoring. and When i came back from office, he was always waiting for me,or come running whenever he hear my voice, to play with me, to be with me.
Child custody for Father in india is a dream, lawyers and court accept Fathers appeal,just to entertain public and show world that india is democaratic, male dominated society.As per my knowledge one out of million cases, decided in favor of Father.
In my case, lawyers try to drag as much as possible, and judge hardly ask why mother is not coming to court,when she came to court only 2 times in last 7 years. she left my son with her parents and went abroad,still judge is unable to decide who can take of him. she gave all false statements and swore lies on BIBLE. so i decided not to fight this biased indian laws, and traumatis my son draging this case more. in a hope that some day he will realise and ask, why he cann`t meet his Father. why his Parents are not together. i know she and her parents will fill him with all lies and alegations and hatred towards me.
Still someday he will make her to answer.and he will know the truth.