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06/12/2009 at 4:20 PM #173AnonymousGuest
Dear Sir,
I am married from last three years and from the day one of finding one partner for me, my family had a very clear concept that we don’t need dowry. we r from a upper middle class family and i m a gazetted officer. Finally i married to a girl from a poor family purely on the merits of girl. The father of the girl was not in this world(dead) before marriage. The sister and jija of the girl, who initially came for marriage talks, clearly told us that we can give u only and only girl and nothing more but the girl is a gem. we accepted to this proposal and finally i got married to this girl. She took some gifts with her but we never demanded the gifts, even we didnt do ring ceremony so that they don’t get burdened
After marriage, i m under constant pressure and she is mentally torturing me and my family. she talks rudely with my mother and later on puts whole blame on my mother. She constantly gives me threat to suicide or leave the home. She is insisting on living separately but i don’t want to leave my parents. I m confused and i want some way out. If we go for divorce then we have not heard many happy stories. please advice, how can we save our skin
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07/12/2009 at 4:35 AM #1145AnonymousGuest
Dear friend, you have done your best duty which itself is proud of us. If you wife is not happy in joint family, u take her in confidence & ask the reason, if not so much important u try to understand & wait for some period. You went with her on tour for a week, I think your problem is not so serious, it will be solved.
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07/12/2009 at 7:32 AM #1146AnonymousGuest
Record all such threats, which may useful if she file for Divorce.
try to settle the difference when it ist small, Divorce is not a solution for your Problems,Every marriage has Problems. running away from it is a cowardliness. try to understand each other and solve the problem amicably.
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07/12/2009 at 9:38 AM #1147AnonymousGuest
Just one bit of sensible advise. In a unhappy situation in a marriage, do not and I repeat, do not have children. Children do not cement bad marriages. They just make the situation 1000 times worse and solution much more difficult.
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