Todays most of the women has some dark history, the so called adventures they made before marriage. but they will not disclose, mostly they try to hide from future husband and keep in dark, thinking he will not find out.
This is another story of a girl, that also mangalorean girl.
She saw my Profile and send message, as usual i replied with my brief details, and basic questions,as her profile was showing NEVER MARRIED.I told her, if no man will claim he was with her then reply. She replied.
“yes indeed i sent you my picture a bit latest some months back can say.? you stated i look modern in my picture.? yes you are right, i am modernised n more westernised, i mean i dress good to look presentable thats how our family culture n bringing up is.? but my dressing is always dignified, im modest in appearance.? i dont do show off business.? i live for good.? theres saying in konkani “mandri kithli asa thithlay amchay pai sodchay”.? what you need in a women to marry is good heart n mind, modesty, dignity, love, care n politeness n above all god fearing keeping prayer on priority.? i m so……..? trust me.” [ Unmoderated, CUTnPASTE as she wrote ]
then I asked her, why she is not married till 37
“why i dint marry till 37 years of age.? i have some medical problem and on getting operated i was reported i could not conceive a child, so this happened when i was 26 years.? at that moment i decided not to get married at all n no man on earth would take easy to marry me n not have a child of his own frm me.? honestly n sincerely speaking i remained unmarried till 36. but life changed with me after 36 i felt lonely n bored up and i was looking for a life partner then.? out of hassel i met a guy last december a hindu guy,? we were friends on phone n net.? mangalorean site registered person.? he told me first he is catholic, working etc and i beleived blindly.? we met personally in december n i introduced him to my parents too.? then we got only court marriage in march 2008 n after that i learnt he was a fraud, he completely cheated me.? i lived with him for a month.? life was miserable n bitter.? by then my parents too got panicked n told me to leave him before things could get worse.? i did tell him my medical problem, he had no probs itseems, he cheated my parents n me, i lost lot money in this n time my job etc.? no probs god will help me.? now im taking divorce frm him he has agreed after lot counselling n his friends interference, its mutual sign off.? papers are in process. it would take 6 months.? in my family except for my parents n sister no one knows this miserable fate of mine.? i m honest n sincere person by nature.” [ Unmoderated, CUTnPASTE as she wrote ]
and there comes the truth. she?agreed she made a mistake, but women always term it as their FATE, and Blame it on men for their fault. but never admit, they made a mistake.