Not only this I was trying to find out what and why it went wrong, I asked and wrote many question to counseling and Doctors.
Here, what I wrote to Prof Hilda Rayappan of a Counseling firm of Mangalore called Prajna Counseltency.
to.Prof. Hilda Rayappan
I’m married but separated for last 3 years, ours was arranged marriage, I do not have any bad habits like drinking/smoking or anyithing I`m little strict about money matters and house hold things, which she never liked, in the second week of our marriage she asked me to give divorce, made me to promise that I’ll start drinking and enjoying, coz I do not mingle with anyone like that, I have selected friends, most of the time I would like to stay at home, doing cleaning/laundry other personal things which she was calling abnormal, she demanded to transfer my flat to her name always asking about my salary and so on, at last she runaway with my gold and valuables now she stay seperated with our kid, i`m really confused what kind of women she was and why she did this.
You mentioned your side of problem, but the reason on your wife’s side is not clear. I can understand that you are confused about this big question mark in your life. There might be some personality problem. This needs to be explored. In your mail you have mentioned your place as Karkala. As we are in the neighbouring place I suggest you meet me personally. You can contact me on Ph: 2432682, Time: 9.30 A.M. to 8.00 P.M, Monday to Saturday.