NCW always treat husband(men) mothers are not women
and you are not the only one; see this http://mynation.net/abio/reply-from-ncw/
if they call next time, do not argue, just tell them, whatever objection/complaint they have to give in writting.
“Please send us mail about this case in details”
if they still argue, just tell them, there is judgment on WCD/NCW, where they do not have right to enquire when case is in court.
You can also produce obove letter where it says, they have nothing to with the case when case in court, its their own letter.
Lets see what they are saying.