Men take responsibility of the whole house for those who do not know i.e. given a chance by his Wife. His heart longs to cater :-
1. His parents and relatives to check on them (he grew with them),
2. His wives family (as to how they can be comfortable so that she is happy)
3. His work place as to how to manage in order to make life easier for his wife and children,
4. His health problems,
5. The world outside is so evil so he tries all the possibility to make it secure for his family.
Is this something less challenge-able to them as they are humans who can make mistakes, have weaknesses and fall back at times, but who are ready to do it just to keep his family safe and secure from any problems.
Women think only she has emotions and problems, just that men don’t show, and if they show (women can’t see it, they forget or they take it lightly)
And when men want to just have some happiness that gives them the strength with their wife, to carry their mission with her support, her tantrums from her small brain who cannot think by putting her leg in his shoe is something really sad, ultimately families are breaking or else man is no longer himself.
Indian women use these tricks, they have many ways other than emotional blackmail, suicide threats, and sob stories and get sympathy from others to act for them and force man to do against his wish.
It is said, Men heart through his stomach; For a man, there is no cook better than his mother; but his wife think, instead cooking better food than his mother and serve on time she will manipulate situation, by not giving him food or just delay deliberately thinking he will wait and beg for her food or serve like she is pitty on you or doing some favor by serving you; that’s the mistake she makes, he can eat any food but he will not tolerate delay, making him wait and feel like begger; Instead he will go out and have better food, different type for less, and if he gives 2Rs tips to a waiter next time he will be served with more respect.
Men are not designed to Cheat or look for other women when they are happy and satisfied with one relation, even they like surprise, kinky and wild sex; wives think by withholding sex to husband they can control him and make him hers. Instead giving him whenever he wanted, in odd places with surprise, she makes him wait, not co-operating, keep on giving reasons, later, not well, some other time, not now, its Day time, someone may come, someone is watching, etc etc. all this push him away from her, or when she allowed, he will finish his and dont care about her satisfaction or Orgasm, that she never know, she think he will wait for her and beg..
However, she is wrong, she will not only lose him but her marriage will end up in divorce too, that is why wise called “Aurath ka akkal gutne ka niche“.
Man want a Women like his Mother and his Girl Friend; in slang language, He want a Chef, Teacher and a Prostitute.
If a women really want to make him dance to her tune then she should ready to be a chef on time, Teach who never shout or beat, and A Prostitute who is ready to do anything anywhere at least once.
Whereas a Man is next to God, and women do not understand the worth of being with a man and do not give the chance to know what it is to live happily with him.
Complicated are these women and self-centered who develop ego and pride after everything is secure for them despite giving them the freedom and space to live.
I can say Men only want happiness and peace from their own loved one to get that strength in this human world to make his family he has. The best and be proud of so that when he becomes old together with his wife or even if he is alone, He can cherish the memories to smile and leave behind a legend of victory of love over hatred.