its a fees for the services rendered.
but what about time?(you will not remain young forever) what about money spent by you for litigations? would you like to lead your life with insecurity and fear. Where will this revenge attitude take you??
Most of the cases end result is divorce and settlement .
would you like to fight through out your life with such slow pace judiciary system.
you would want to settle down marry again and move on.. you will difinately feel need of a companion and children at one point or other. We have one life to live.