Reply To: Constent tension

Do not blame Everything on your husband.

it take 2 persons to run family/marriage smoothly. like a cart.

You cannt clap with one hand. so there should be some fault of you. Why do you think he doesnt want you….?.

– very true it takes 2 willing person … and how well one can balance…

Whatever your problem or his, the case you filled solved your problem with him ? than black mailing him.

498A will creat revenge attitude not only your husband but his whole family.

498A is not answer for any of women problems than fast track to divorce.

— it was not with the intension of solving. prboblems and challanges are either ways.

– but yes it has given me a protection from further atrocities when you are sure it is a divorce. it has given me a platform for settlement. and yes amicable settlement for both.

if you really cared for child then you should have talked with him along with elders and reached amicable solution and mutual divorce.when you found out he finished with you.

-I did… but amicable solution did not happen. i don’t consider it as finished when we have common strings attached(child). it can be mistakes or lust…

in current situation of india, men knows how long it take to get divorce and solve other legal issues

– fast track divorce is for those who wants to remarry. and do not want do and don’ts of marriage.

what is the use getting divorce after 10 years and maitenance after fighting long legal battle.

can you bring back those lost years…?

Your age…?

– divorce yes you may have to wait . but you can claim intirim maitenance for survival .. it is lost years for both. with or without divorce if it is failed marriage(years of misery).

thats why someone rightly said.

AURATH KA AKKAL GUTNEKA NICHE

– aurath ke bhagair bhi tho admi nahi reh sakta- maa/bhahen/biwi/beti

whether it is your bitter half or better half you agree that she is your half.