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– Really sad to hear your story
– I have to state a few facts here… so do NOT mind me calling a spade a spade
– Do NOT get worked up or angry with me … we are all suffering the same fate as you, I’m the father of a 13 year old child and I have hardly held my kid for 13 days after my wife left me
– For your info I too have a daughter … she is 13 years old …and probably she can’t even recognize me
– You are a muslim.
– Mulsim men have a LOT of rights under sharia. So PLEASE do NOT loose heart.
– Your wife can practically do NOTHING ….REPEAT practically NOTHING under sharia
– She cannot divorce you
– she CANNOT refuse visitation rights to you to visit your daughter
– REPEAT she cannot divorce you
– she CANNOT demand usurious money from you in the form of maintenance
– OF course she CAN file FALSE criminal cases (like the dowry case) against you … join Save Indian Family groups,…. attend their meetings in person or call our volunteers by phone and discuss with them
– My wife and numerous other women have filed false dowry cases …there are 100000s of cases pending … yeah I’ve got the “0”s right there are lakhs of cases pending in court, police etc… you are NOT the first…you will NOT be the last …YOU ARE NOT ALONE !!
– STOP your self pity
– DO NOT THINK OF EVEN GIVING HER DIVORCE
– Muslim men can re marry without divorce. your wife will have to beg you for divorce
– THINK like a MUSLIM … Stop, look around, think like a muslim ….please !!!
– Shit happens in life. we have to accept this, We have to re start
– there are 100000s of people to whom this has happened
– The owner of this board, a pioneer in mens rights movement , a guy who runs this and many other internet initiatives hasn’t had legal reprive for ages…. so what ?? He is marching forward
– He is a leading light to 1000s …probably 10s of 1000s of people
– Are you ready to fight ? or are you wanting to run away from this problem ??
– DECIDE ….DECIDE NOW
– Have you read the sharia Law ?
– IF not go read it
– consult your local Quadi on family law of Muslims
– consult your local Imam or Qadi on sharia
– forget fear
– forget self pity
….and <b>when you have decided to FIGHT … completely decided to fight back …. come back here and write to us </b>
or write back to the my nation foundation yahoo groups
Actually yours is a very simple case as far as I have seen
What is your case ?
– Wife has run away
– wife’s father is giving you dhumki
– what else ??
– NOTHING …… practically NOTHING
Go to your Masjid…pray…take a vow for azadi..take a vow to fight back against injustice
Be happy that the trouble maker has left your home